When i told my bf that I was pregnant we was thinking of getting an abortion. But I dont believe in abortions so I couldnt do that. So we decided to keep it. But now that I1m about to have him. he is sayin that he cant have kids. I1m really cunfused right now. He still wants to be with me. But I dont know what to do. This is hurting me alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-28 03:16:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Dont let him sling that around at all. It is insulting to you and suggests that he thinks the baby isnt his and that your promiscuous. No way would I let that one slide. First chance you get you need to get the paternity test then he and no one else will ever question whose the daddy. He is just scared and he needs to be a man about it.
2007-01-28 03:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by kindfirez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask for a paternity test at the hospital. Some guys say that they can't have kids because they are scared, but they've really never been tested to see if they can't have kids. They just think they can't. My husband used to say "I can't have kids" but then we got pregnant with fraternal twins... so he can have kids. He was just afraid of being a bad dad. But once your boyfriend sees this new little one he may change his tune. Especially if the baby looks a lot like him.
2007-01-28 03:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by babybunny729 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know better! if you are faithfull to him u know he can have kids because you are pregnant! dont pay him any attention when he talks like that because he is not god he cant determine weather he is able to have kids or not! Some doctors cant even be sure if a person can or cant have kids so dont worry about it! you have a miracle baby on the way! as far as im concerned. P.S dont listen to other peoples crap advise either no one has to live with your decisions but you! so dont do anything that you might regret.
2007-01-31 20:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by chocklitcherry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 months isn't long adequate to be stressful approximately infertility. yet i'm VERY worried which you have been relationship this guy for under a year, and you're already attempting for a sprint one. Wait to confirm if the relationship is going to final. flow in mutually and stay mutually (or get married) for a pair of years. then you definately upload a sprint one to the mixture. i'm additionally worried which you're making plans to have a sprint individual who smokes a great form of weed. while he finally leads to reformatory, how will you help your toddler? If, inspite of all, you're desperate to maintain on ... you save attempting. If, by utilising next Jaunary you're nonetheless no longer pregnant, you the two flow to confirm a fertility professional for a whole artwork-up ... and be effective to point that your boyfriend is addicted to marijuana.
2016-11-01 12:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by lobos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont think that you can handle this baby alone, without his help, than get an abortion. you aren't killing a child because it isn't even fully developed yet. to me it looks like hes getting nervous and prolly wont be there to support you so make a decision thats best for you and dont worry about the fetus!
2007-01-29 14:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by laura c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a loser!! Get a DNA as soon as the baby is born and then make him pay child support. You might think this guy is going to change but he is a poor excuse for a man if he is denying his child.
2007-01-28 04:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by tajairip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a paternity test as soon as the baby is born. I believe they can do it right in the hospital.
2007-01-28 03:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by sisterdynomite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just an scared irresponsible man. hopefuly once the baby is born he ill fall in love with him/her and start to be a real man and take responsibility.....good luck
2007-01-28 03:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥sexy_love♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋