Is it possible that it's becasue I'm active and I have a lot to do? Sometimes I think that men prefer quiet girls without their own thoughts and hobbys.
What I can do about that? It's too difficult to change that.
2007-01-28 03:03:03 · 22 answers · asked by Martha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't change for anybody, "be true to yourself." I am sure that you will eventually meet someone that is compatible with you, perhaps you are looking in the wrong places....
2007-01-28 03:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Specter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect boyfriend....if you are very active, that is not a bad thing. However, if you never have TIME for them, you may need to reconsider why guys lose interest. You can't build a relationship if you spend no time building it. You have to put in the effort when you can to help it grow.
Think of it from their side..you call the girl, she denies you becuase she has something else to do. You call her again, same thing happens. You try again, hoping differently, she still has no time for you and doesn't even BOTHER to give you alternative dates or times she is available.
What do you think a guy is planning to do? Ya, he loses interest and thinks you don't like him. Got to give in a little something on your side too, ya know!
2007-01-28 03:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 12:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there's no such thing as perfect. Seriously speaking, isn't it?
However, if you have a lot of male friends, you will naturally know if that particular guy is one of the best you have come across... and if u feel that he's not bad, give him a chance to prove himself! Only then you will know if he suits you or not. He may not be perfect in the first place...but after being with him for a longer period of time, you may just find him perfect!
All the best!
2007-01-28 03:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect boyfriend...? No one is perfect. But sweety, don't change who you are just so that you can get boyfriend. if a guy can't accept you for who you are than so be it, it'll be his loss. But you also have to remember that if you're in a relationship with someone you have to spend quality time with them. no one wants a boy or girl friend who is too busy for them.
You can also stop trying to find a BF and just focus on you, on what you want in life. Take the time to find out who you are and fix whatever you think you want to be fixed. Sometimes, when you aren't looking for the one, he'll come to you.
2007-01-28 03:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand u but there is no such thing as PERFECT. Only GOD is always remember that. Neways, I always had bfs who cheated on me with my closest friends and others have lied to me and treated me really bad, now I'm in a relationship with somebody that's really serious and likes to go out and drink every saturday and when we talk he tells me that he wants me to change my ways. I'm a really happy person and I love to laugh and have a good time and I love to keep things up and when we go out we are always with his friends so I act a little more conservative and serious and he likes that but I feel strange cuz thats not me and I love to have fun but with him I have to play a role and I feel that if he can't take me as I am then his not worth my time.. So the point is if a guy can't take u for who u are then he ain't worth it. Our time will come to find that great guy we have been waiting for we just need to have patience and let things flow.
2007-01-28 03:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martha...don't change because you can't find the perfect man...keep on being yourself! Eventually the right man will come along and you will know it in your heart. Don't ever change on who you are. You have a long life so live it to the fullest, don't stop what you are doing just because the right man hasn't jumped in your lap yet. He will. In time. When you least expect it.
2007-01-28 03:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by shuggabhugga05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What self-respecting guy wants a girl w/no hobbies or thoughts?? I think your hanging around the wrong people. That's the prob.
Good Luck
2007-01-28 03:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dancing with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now you should just focus on the things that mean the most to you, playing sports/your activities/job etc.....you will find the right guy when the right time comes along. sometimes its better that you dont have someone holding you down when your so busy....it may just be added stress that you dont need. everything happens for a reason so when the time is right, youll find him. gd luck!
2007-01-28 03:06:44 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So don't try. An active life is a full life, and you can't sacrifice it for a boyfriend. NO ONE can find a perfect boyfriend. It just isn't done.
2007-01-28 03:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) nobody's perfect -- remember that
2) try to find guys in the activities you do
3) some men do like outgoing girls
4) remember dont ever change yourself just because of one person
2007-01-28 03:10:06 · answer #11 · answered by xo_cuddly_kitten_xo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋