i just go married may 25, 2006 and moved into an appartment
with my husband june 1, 2006. we had some real bad problems
in our new appartment which forced us to move out and back home with our parents. my husband stays at his moms home
and i stay at my mothers mothers home we do not live together.
our mother are mad at us because we are married trying to build our own lives and we are not their slaves anymore. it all about them and the other silbings and they are mean to just us and treat us diffrent. my husband and i are not allowed to live together in
neither one of our mothers house so we live seperately. were are
in the process of buying a new home and we move in march 1, 2007. his mom basically put me out ouf her house last night
saying that we dont pay rent and iam not allowed over their anymore but i never moved in! i was their because i problems
i have at home with my mother about my marraige, any advice?
2007-01-28 03:01:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What in the world is your husband doing?? Isnt he standing up for you against his mother, saying she cant put his wife out like that? I would be flat out pissed if my husband wouldn't defend me.
2007-01-28 03:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little confused. You said you moved back home because of problems with the apartment and you can't stay with your husband in either home. I think there is more to this story. I hope you got marriage counseling if not it is time to do so. Also, you have made a choice to get married that makes hubby your family now. Mom(s) will just have to deal with it.
2007-01-28 03:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by pamo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel like there is more to this story than what your telling. It sounds like both your folks are probably worried about you and probably a little angry that what they thought would happen, actually has happened. Just try to hang in there and help out around the house as much as you can, be the adult, ya know. You can get alot farther with people by being nice than by being mean. Hopefully, things will be a little more peaceful and you'll survive until March.
2007-01-28 03:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Texas Pineknot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does that because she sees you as your own person now and you moving in again seems like an infringment on her territory. If you are moving into your new house in march, you only have a few weeks left. Is it possible for you to go to a place (apt. hotel/motel) that rents weekly/monthly? At least then you can live together and you aren't infringing either.
2007-01-28 03:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a very interesting situation and for the mean time if things are bad at both homes try going to craig's list and see if you can find an apartment you can rent for a couple of months till you close escrow on your home. also, do you help out with the bills at the house since you live there, maybe she wants you to help out with money. i am not really sure why you are having issues with your mom and his mom ... but its best you guys get your own place. i mean you guys are newly wed, its the best years of the marriage :) its honeymoon phase.
2007-01-28 03:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by Bee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow your mom sounds rather advise to me yet on a similar time once you asked her the question of working grew to become into she inebriated? nicely yea you ought to tell her that she ought to have faith you and that your in comparison to your mom which you're a much greater advantageous man or woman than she would be able to ever be and yea your mom might have a angers difficulty so which you ought to tell her the way you experience approximately her and how she acts in direction of you and not your lil brother via fact this isn't any longer good and your only 13 you ought to have maximum of jobs around the residing house she ought to do the dishes no longer you. you're only 13 you cant cope with lots yet yea your mom sound distinctly advise sturdy success i'm hoping issues artwork out sturdy.
2016-09-28 02:32:54 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any friends that you can live with untill your house is ready, why did you move out of your apt? Both parents should understand that you are married and help you in anyway that they can.I don't know why they wouldn't unless their is bad blood in the relationship.I would move far way from both parents and not even invite them into my home if i were you after you move in.they sound very hateful
2007-01-28 03:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It was a big mistake to move in with your parents. It probably put a strain on them. It was also a mistake to separate from your husband. Find a cheap place to live until your new place is ready.
2007-01-28 03:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What made you think that getting married was going to solve your problems? You have now demonstrated to your families that you are even dumber and less considerate than they suspected. GET a JOB!
2007-01-28 03:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either rent a place temporarily ,motel,or put up with the bull till you move in your house
2007-01-28 03:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋