He told my girlfiend that he is a tradittional man, he cannot accept his partner older den him. Do you think he is telling the truth or he just using a lame excuse to kick me away! Can I take it as he do have feelings for me?
2007-01-28 01:54:17 · 22 answers · asked by USS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could go either way. I personally would not be able to be in a relationship with a person younger than me. Its something that is completely off limits. It could be an excuse, but most guys wouldn't use something as random as that as a reason not to go out with a person. Either way, you have your answer though. He's not going to go out with you. In the end that's all that matters. Who cares about in what way he rejected you. Stop dwelling on that. How much better is the answer to your question really gonna make you feel? You're still not going to get what you want.
2007-01-28 02:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by maya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 2 were a couple for some time, I would say that he had feelings for you before. He might be telling the truth about being traditional and all that. But think about it, try asking him, if he were that kind of person, why did he even date you in the first place.
Be sure to be polite when you ask too. Because traditions are a sensitive issue.
If both of you didn't date long or never did, you're probably making it look like you're a couple. But you're only then lying to yourself. Usually, when it comes to love, age is a secondary thing. But some people have different views of it.
Not everyone is the same. If he were plannig to kick you away as you said, I'm sure he'll find a better way to do it. He wouldn't come up with such "excuses" to do it.
2007-01-28 10:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by IdOlIsTiC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are persons who are very fussy about age , etc. and would only do things that have been imbibed in them since birth. Hence it is not new thing that he may have told you so. A lame excuse just because he is 2 years older to you doesnot seem to fit into things. Any way you need not think much into this whole episode. if you really feel strongly for the guy speak to him straight and you will know the truth. In case you do not have strong feeling for him. Just be cool and find some one who can respect your feelings. The whole earth is there to choose a partner of your choice who is compatible and understands your emotions.
All the best and have a nice time.
2007-01-28 10:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REJECT HIM AS WELL. The only reason why you are hurt and still hurting you is that you obviously expected too much. So what, Girl?!. Does the going affected your normal breathing? Did that BOY took your soul away. I HOPE NOT. Open your eyes, a lot of real Romeos are just humping around waiting for a fortunate coincidence. Drink a lot of water or fresh juice, perhaps, to lighten up you day. Don't take that situation draw you down because you might just end up look like a drifted old maid. Do ya wanna be like that?
2007-01-28 10:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bully Charmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has feelings for you, your age will not matter to him. Trust me, whether is it an excuse or reason. He doesn't have that kind of feelings which you have for him towards you. Maybe this isn't what you wanna hear here but I'd advice you to move on.
2007-01-28 10:20:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends..... Does he act like wierd around you coz if he is thats a sign that he does have some kind of feeling for you but if your really interested to know just make an effort to know if he likes you or not to get things clear with him and your feeling.
And Gud luck
2007-01-28 10:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by CarZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about it too much cuz it wont help wether he has feelings or its only excuse etc. at the end of the day neither of u will be comfortable.
just take the words as they were said. ull find another
2007-01-28 10:02:27 · answer #7 · answered by seeker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is rediculous of him i am not trying to be mean but maybe he isnt interested? I dont know but thats stupid well whatever good luck to him falling madly in love with someone his exact age?/: Good luck to you im sure you could get someone younger and better looking anyways!
2007-01-28 10:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by I love America♥♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is not into you and was trying to spare your feelings...a 2 year age difference is not a huge deal at all. You can't make someone like you...just try your best to move on...time will help you!
2007-01-28 09:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using a lame excuse. Kick his balls for being such a pansy next time you see him. Good luck
2007-01-28 09:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋