I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he's in a long-term long-distance relationship. I told him I liked him and that it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is he's ignoring me and has been for the past 4 weeks. Last week, was my birthday and I got a card from some coworkers. He wrote Happy Birthday in it, but didn't sign his name and he's still not talking to me.
2007-01-28 01:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hold your head up high and go on as usual
2007-01-28 01:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on fast...this guy is not worth your time...and shame on you for not communicating with him directly face to face...versus texting and writing letters. Bottom line is that no matter how much you are into this guy you know that he has a long distance relationship and you should respect that - would;t you want the same thing if you were in the situation? Another huge flag is that he asked you to hook up after he knew liked him...total player in my opinion and the way he is treating you by not talking to you, etc, is just childish...you deserve much more and to be treated better...move on!
2007-01-28 01:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, he needs to get over himself. U dom not deserve to be treated like that, nobody does. If he doesnt feel the same ok, but he could have at least tried to be friends. Men grrr hehe jk. But dont let him jerk u around , tell him ok be that way, i have more friends and they respect me enough not to treat me like dirt. U will be ok,alot nicer people out there ,k. tc and good luck
2007-01-28 02:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by jojo69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your work and forget about him. Bringing home the paychecks should be a top priority compared as to who you talk to at work.
2007-01-28 01:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like to kill him.we people will feel very much angry towards who is not treating us not rightly.if,it is mother or guy,we will feel it bad because it is quiet natural.just think we are not Buddha .but,trust in god.if you didn't do wrong,you will not need to be sad.better is to avoid him(because he will cheat you onesmore.).don't hate me because i like your friendship.
loving yours friend athira
from god's own country.
2007-01-28 02:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on....forget any of it happened and don't write him any more letters.
2007-01-28 01:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep enduring
2007-01-28 01:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Tim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, he's not worth it!
2007-01-28 02:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋