I think your question is really:
"How much of my life should I devote to making this person the center of everything I do."
The answer is: None, don't waste your time.
Now if you happen to run into this person in a dark alley while you are living your own life and not theirs, while you are armed and dangerous, I say shoot them, but, that kind of disregards the entire idea of not harming them physically. Also, if you are carrying a firearm without the proper permits you could end up in jail and if you do have permits and shoot someone they could trace the gun back to you, in which case your revenge on them is revenge on you.
Now go back and reread the paragraph above because it makes just about as much sense as wasting your time plotting revenge against some moron.
Forgive them and let it go. Don't forget the person is a moron, just forgive them and let it go.
2007-01-28 01:47:35
·
answer #1
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
Honestly, revenge is never an option. Take the high road, be the better person. Forgive & forget, all that.
If you get mired down in revenge, your life will become less meaningful. Enjoy each day as a new day, enjoy all the different facets of that day & stop living in the past.
2007-01-28 01:40:34
·
answer #2
·
answered by TexasChick 4
·
1⤊
0⤋
The best revenge is for you to move on and live well. Someone famous said that but I can't remember who. I think revenge hurts you more than them, will somehow come back around to bite you. Don't do it, just let it go whatever it is. Rise above the person who wronged you, and just move on. If they really did wrong to you they will get theirs some day!
2007-01-28 01:37:37
·
answer #3
·
answered by barefoot_always 5
·
5⤊
0⤋
My friend and I filled out and mailed about a 100 magazine subscription cards under our ex-friend's name to get back at her for being such a terrible friend. Honestly, everyone had always told us to be the bigger person and let things go, but we were sick of hearing that because **** just never worked out our way anyway.
Well fast forward a month and a half later our ex-friend takes us to court for harrassment because she thought we kept sending them to her, but the problem was that the mail was slow and it took a while for her to get all 100.
My friend and I faced $1000 fine and up to 6 months in jail. The charges eventually ended up being dropped. But regardless, now I know to get over crap wayy more easily.
Take it from me, no matter what you do, nothing will completely make you feel better because you're not doing the same thing back to them that they did to you. And you might even get screwed over in the process.
2007-01-28 09:35:02
·
answer #4
·
answered by jaded_trader 2
·
1⤊
0⤋
I could sit here and talk about living well and preach about forgiveness, but that wouldn't answer your question.
So my real answer is: Hurt their family and loved ones. It works in all the movies!
Or if you don't want to go to jail, you could always spread nasty rumors about them. Like call the police and say you hear sounds of domestic violence coming from their address, so the police come and talk to this person and all their neighbors naturally assume the worst. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 03:07:38
·
answer #5
·
answered by Mariah 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
The best revenge, as a wise person once said, is to "to go on, and live well" Not to mention that this shows strength, self discipline, and good character. The other person will stew inwardly that you are the one who came out looking good.
2007-01-28 01:38:07
·
answer #6
·
answered by Anonymous
·
3⤊
0⤋
It's not a shame to forgive, it's not cowerdness, it needs courage more then revenge do. It's easy to hurt somone, I wouldn't say no, but it's mature to take the decision and forgive.
Once the apostle Peter asked Jesus, "How often shall I forgive my brother, unto 7 times?" Jesus said, "no, but unto 77 times"
Good luck,
2007-01-28 01:46:36
·
answer #7
·
answered by troubadour 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
The worst you can do (to yourself) is do the revenge in the first place...
2007-01-28 02:28:09
·
answer #8
·
answered by Liz S 1
·
0⤊
0⤋
Revenge is a dish best not served! Forgiveness is Divine!
2007-01-28 01:35:59
·
answer #9
·
answered by Anonymous
·
2⤊
0⤋
Let go of whatever it is they did and forget they ever existed. As long as you're thinking about revenge, they are in control.
2007-01-28 01:36:24
·
answer #10
·
answered by Anonymous
·
3⤊
0⤋