I really like this girl, and I think she likes me, but not sure. How can I get over my fear of asking her to dance/go on a date? How can I not embarrass myself?
We are both 13 in May, and we both like sports. There is a Bar Mitzvah party most Saturdays, and I was thinking we could go to that together or something.
2007-01-28 00:56:23 · 7 answers · asked by sportsfan89b 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you would like to ask a girl out, just find the right time and place to ask. Sometimes you will just be hanging out, talking, when you feel you would like to make a date with her. If you do not really know her, but have seen her in school, or with other friends you know, then it might take a little more effort, but it certainly can be done.
Be nice and treat her with respect. This is a must. If you can't treat a girl right, don't even bother trying. You are just going to end up hurting both of you.
Become her friend. This is half the battle, and at the very worst at least you have one more friend than you had before.
Be calm and confident. If you're sweating and stuttering, that girl will feel nervous about going out with you. Girls want guys that are confident, but not cocky.
Do not call her sexy or hot; Call her beautiful.
Practice talking to her. If you feel uncomfortable talking to her, you probably aren't ready to ask her out.
Think of subjects to discuss on the date; stories about yourself, things you want to know about her etc in advance. That way it'll be easier to avoid painful breaks in the flow of the conversation.
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2007-01-28 01:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her. You're going to be a man. Decide what day, and ask her.
Ask your father for his advice on how to proceed. If he's a good guy, he'll say "Just ask her."
You cannot be embarrassed if you do not care what she says. So don't care. Just ask. She might say yes, she might say no.
The best way to overcome fear is to act like you are not afraid, and take the action you are afraid of anyway.
2007-01-28 01:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a flower with a single note attached. Call it a ‘dance card’ and write your name all over it. Its a nice way of letting her know that her dance card is full.
Its a old fashioned tradition where men would write their names onto a dance card and the girls would dance with each man listed on her dance card. Its a sweet tradition. And a great way for shy guys to ask a girl to dance.
2007-01-28 01:04:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
for date ask her to do something neutral rather than as a vdate. get to know her and see if the chemistries there.
at your age u dont even need to date yet just get used to girls.
dancing?
ask her to dance to a fast song.
going to bar mitzah party with her? sorry although im not jewish than sounds like a big time date and max embarassment in front of family and friends? are u nuts!!!
Go have an ice cream or just study together or something. dont do it in front of the whole world.
2007-01-28 01:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her if she is thinking of going to the dance. If she doesn't want to go with you, she will either say she isn't wanting to go or that she is going with someone else. She won't be turning you down directly.
2007-01-28 01:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right the best way to express your feelings to the girl is during the dance time sure man thats how i got success come on cheerup and do this coming saturday
2007-01-28 01:06:45 · answer #6 · answered by jaikumaar6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a good start. ask her if she would like to go with you as your friend
2007-01-28 01:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋