Does anyone out there really belive that there is someone for everyone ?

Question

Or are u cynical like me and think that its a load of bull ?

Answer 1

yes to both questions.*

*(answer subject to change without prior notice)

Answer 2

No, I don't, and frankly I am glad of it.
How in the world would we ever find that one person? We'd all have to spend thousands of dollars on plane tickets traveling around looking for "the one." Unless of course you think that fate will intervene and you two will meet someday by chance. In which case "the one" is always (miraculously) someone from near where you live.
No, I think rather that there are many people each one of us could live with and be very happy. It has to do with personality - your personality is compatible with some kinds of personalities, and not with some others. And it depends on what compromises you are willing to make with your partner - how many of the annoying things they do are you willing to put up with? Even true love requires effort to make it work.
Also, there's no guarantee that you'll ever meet someone who is right for you. Sad as that thought is, not everyone ends up happy even if they keep looking. But that's not a reason not to look. And it's every reason to keep on being who you really are - that way, you will attract someone who loves the real you, and even if you don't, you'll love yourself and will probably find a way to be happy on your own, with the things you do in your life, and not regret much of anything.

Answer 3

I think there is someone for everyone. Now I don't know about the whole "fairytale" thing though. There is a RIGHT person for everyone, and everyone else besides them just won't do it for you. You'll know when you found that right one because they will be able to except and handle ALL of your personality traits, and no matter what happens between the two of you, you will still feel a very strong love for them. Give it time, you'll find that person....but you do have to put some effort in to try.

Answer 4

Yes there is a special someone for everyone. Everything in the world has its turns ups and downs and even love does but at the end you end happy and joyful because you found that special someone. It may seem to you that this is all a piece of crap and you may think that because you had been in failures in your past that is never going to happen, but it will. Sometimes you have to suffer and even have to go through bad and/or good things to end up with the desired and to end up with love, True Love.

Answer 5

I like to think there is someone out there for everyone but that doesn't stop me having my cynical days!

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Answer 6

If you look around it would appear that somewhere in the world there is someone for everyone. Personally, I believe there are lots of potential someone's otherwise lots of people would never meet their special someone by virtue of geographical distance alone. What's made you so cynical?

Answer 7

The fact that there is someone for you doesn't mean that you will find them without looking.
Also, there is such a thing as attraction that turns out to become love. It might hit you like a lightening bolt, or it might warm up like a dawn at the beach...you might have to start with someone you simply have a connection with. But you cannot wait for them to appear. Go look for love, and you will be that much more likely to find it.

Answer 8

Oh there is some one for every one, some people have found the right one but push them aside for many reasons. Some people choose to be single and love it. Some people are really hard to live with and people give up to quickly now a days.
There is always some one out there for some one

Answer 9

There's a lot of someones for anyone. it's a numbers game.

Billions of people on the planet.

If your one true love is one in a million, there's like 3500 people on the planet you could marry.

I personally think finding someone to love and be happy with is about 1 in 100. Meet 100 people who want to date, you could marry one of them and be happy. that means the average small city has about a dozen of those people.

Larger cities have hundreds and hundreds.

Relationships are not about true love, it is about what you bring, what they bring.

It's like a recipe for cookies. Flour, sugar, milk, eggs. If an ingredient you need to make it happen is missing find it in someone else, and make it happen. Each relationship is totally different, based on dreams, goals, desires, work ethic, energy, enthusiasm, interests, careers, responsibility, endurance, and happiness of each person.

Good luck.

Answer 10

There is someone out there for everyone. It's just that around 90% of the population don't get to meet theirs. Sometimes we tend to search for the ideal person, even when the right one is just in front of us. I guess this is just one of those things that makes life more livable and exciting; Knowing that there is someone perfect for you, and each day is a chance for you to meet him or her.

Answer 11

Its a fairytale we tell ourselves to make us feel better. So that when we are still single after many years we can still have some hope of finding Mr or Ms Right. When in fact life is full of limited opportunities!