Is that going for a dinner with office mate be considered as date?

Question

I am married and he is also married. We do not have any relations other than coworkers. But I like to go with him for a dinner. Is that be considered a date?

Answer 1

Just having dinner with a friend isn't considered a "date". The question is do both of your spouses know that you two are going out to dinner together? Maybe one or both of your spouses could go with then it wouldn't feel too weird. I've gone out to dinner several times with male friends. BUT they're all gay friends and my husband knows about it. Unless it was just to McDonald's or something I don't think I'd feel right going to a restaurant and having a sit-down dinner with a straight male friend alone.

Answer 2

This is a dangerous thing to do, you should realise where this is going to - trouble with a capital T. If you want to keep your marriage, think seriously about this. Why do you want to go for dinner with him...mmmmm. If you are even thinking about this, then you know you shouldn,t. How would you feel if your husband went for dinner with another woman from work.

Answer 3

Why would you want to be alone with any man when you are married? Too much temptation.
Ask your husband to go and have him ask his wife to come along.
Ask yourself if you would like your husband to out to dinner alone with another woman.

Good Luck

Answer 4

if your there to work then no not a date

if your going to talk shop or pop around ideas for a deadline then no

but if your just going to have fun then yes a date

Answer 5

Absolutely not. Co-workers dine together all the time. The exception would be of course if either of you have other intentions.

Answer 6

Hi!

Yah, it is an officemate date or a friendly date.. Don't worry about that, that's understandable.

Answer 7

my definition of a date is to fu ck all night. if you are going to do that you went on a date!!

Answer 8

as friends and co-workers, no... if you intent more, then yes.. :D