I am 18 and like to choose a boy friend. How to really understand who is better for me?
2007-01-27 23:55:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At 18 it's mainly about convenience and fun.
Look for someone who you like and who will be fun to hang out with. Even though you might not think so right now your perspective on what is important will change. Practise safe sex and keep adulthood at bay (ie kids) for a few more years. But have as much fun as you can fit in.
Have as much fun as you can and spend time with large groups it'll come in handy as you get older. Boyfriends are great fun but they are also a responsibility (like a pet) so be sure you are ready for the effort as well as the fun.
How to find him? At 18 the number of guys looking for girls outweighs the number of girls looking for guys. There are plenty of avenues, but te best advice is usually to follow your own interestes.
And in that channel be assertive. Go up to mguys and say hi. Ge into conversation and talk about them. If you can sustain it there is probably a connection.
If you can't find someone; turn to European art house theatre. Broadcast the fact you are a fan. Sex will come.
2007-01-28 00:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by brown one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to find someone interested in you, you have to be interesting yourself. What makes you interesting? What interests you?
What are your values? You dont need to have the same interests, just as long as you have interests to share and learn from each other.
You must have the same values though. Choose your values wisely and never compromise.
When you are secure in your interests and values,(in other words when you are secure within yourself) the right man will come and you wont have to second guess or try to understand if he is the one for you. He wont either.
You're young though and still can experiment with your interests so date men here and there...no need to get serious...no need to rush:)
2007-01-28 00:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself first what is it that you want in a men & a relationship i.e just wanna be loved,feel complete or perhaps curiosity or maybe 6ex ?if you have satisfied yourself with answers to these questions, then you have taken the first bold step in having a guy that has common intrest like u .In that way intrest is generated with what you willing to offer and comprimise,good luck pumkin
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2007-01-28 00:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off your too young
enjoy life do things you like to do go out have FUN
as an umm older woman you will find them in the most unique places dont go looking they will find you
a quick story
my gf was at the mall and she backed up and hit a car that was pulling out too they swaped #'s and such and they have been together for 33 yrs now trust me IT JUST HAPPENS
2007-01-28 00:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you make a friendship first you find out his back ground , his character, his behaviour , his culture. if everything `is good he is a good friend. but that will take more time you must wait for your good friend.
2007-01-28 00:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop choosing who you think is best, date a few and find the one(s) that makes you happiest... :D
2007-01-28 00:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
his words, his unspoken emotions, his body language, his touch will tell you the truth, follow your heart and don't ever give up on thinking.
2007-01-28 00:15:53 · answer #8 · answered by Shashank 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I should ask myself the same question...
2007-01-27 23:58:45 · answer #9 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋