I really like this guy and I think he likes me back. I want to make the first move, but I'm afraid he'll turn me down. HELP!
2007-01-27 23:51:29 · 18 answers · asked by P!ATDrules! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, It's attractive for a woman to make the first move,it shows confidence,and that's an important quality.
2007-01-27 23:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Troy K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no right way to start a relationship. There is, however, a wrong way and that is not be true to yourself. If you want to make the first move do it! I would say though that you have to let the ball be in his court once you do. Some people tend to make the mistake of trying too hard (this is me :) ) But if there is anything in life that you don't do because you're scared then that isn't really being true to yourself and that's not a good way to live.
2007-01-28 08:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by WhitworthChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not? Make the first move, the worst thing that could happen is he'd say no. It happens to guys all the time and most times we get over it. I don't think its a big deal to ask a guy if he wants to go out together somewhere.
2007-01-28 07:56:44 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have an attraction which is good - and you just need to make a connection.
Ask him to help you with something - like help you fix your bike, or to help you with something you know he is good at. Guys love to fix things and love it when girls admire them for what they are good at. All guys love a girl who builds his ego.
You can strike up a conversation with him away from other people about other stuff you are both doing. Once he feels a connection with you - if he likes you he will ask you out.
Don't worry if he doesn't ask you out right away - just doing this will help create a connection with him and you will be buddies. If he doesn't ask you out right away - just keep talking to him. Once you are friends - then ask him out. Just keep being his friend, play it cool and ask him about his life. GUYS LOVE TO SPEND TIME WITH THE COOL GIRL...
Once he feels a connection with you and if there is an attraction between you - that is the best kind of guy to be with.
Works like a charm.
2007-01-28 08:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the first move. Women of today don't sit around and wait for Mr. Right. They ask him out.
If you are a little shy, then strike up a conversation and maybe flirt a little. Then he will most likely invite you out.
Good luck!
2007-01-28 07:53:44 · answer #5 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go for it....but you should be very delicate how to approach him....I would send an e-cards inviting him for a coffee-break... another technique that might work is pretending you accidentally forgot the wallet at home...and need to borrow $20 for "lunch" If he is smart he should join you and pay without suspecting the intentions you originally had....
2007-01-28 08:04:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the guy already liked you, so dont make the first move... you have to know first the guy very well, like to be close to him as a friends first.. there are guys really who doesn't like the girl to do the move.... you know they have ego..... they want to be manly... so just sit back, relax and make friends with him first and not to send any signs yet!
2007-01-28 08:00:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥@n$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him & he hasnt made a move & you've waited. Then i would say YES make the move. Try giving him your number, then see if he calls!! Good luck!!
2007-01-28 07:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by dee bee007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've waited and nothing happened? make the first move indeed :).
start just talking to him flirty, he'll ask you out and if he doesn't, just ask him out yourself. a coffee after school/work or something..
good luck :)
2007-01-28 07:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by in love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, he won't turn you down, guys are shy and afraid, they can't handle rejection like we female. it's not a terrible thing. if he turns you down, keep being friendly and then he will realize what a mistake he made, 'cause your cool.
2007-01-28 07:56:15 · answer #10 · answered by brown eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋