My bf told me he knows an awful lot about women, do you think that's why he doesn't call as often, because the 'rule book' states that they shouldn't?. My bf's friend is going thru issues with his gf and I overheard my bf tell him to play hard to get!. Do you think that's what he's doing with me?!! If so, shall I pull away?
2007-01-27 23:31:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be very weary - pop psychology is a destructive force in a relationship. Communication is vital to a relationship. Though books can give some information about people in general, I am a unigue person and I find it annoying for people to apply traits/qualities to me based on a book or past experiences. I am sure you are a uniguq person also.
Good luck and "pulling away" may be the abswer - I dislike being played/toyed with on an emotional level.
2007-01-27 23:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The kind of books a person reads and how he reacts to it tells a lot about that person. If he is that devoted to that type of book and takes it that seriously then he doesn't appear to be living in the real world. What he really knows a lot about is those books, and not women. If It were me, I would pull away. Evidently he has never heard the saying "Don't believe everything you read".
2007-01-27 23:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women are complicated and different. I don't know if anyone could actually write a book on dating and know what they're talking about. Its just really dumb because no 2 women are alike. I think maybe this guy should try being honest and sincere and quit reading fiction about how to get women. I think you should talk to each other. You don't learn about dating and relationships from a book. You have to experience them for real. This guy is weird. Tell him he's weird. Tell him to throw his book away and just be himself.
2007-01-27 23:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive read book about dating and such. Its mostly a bunch of rambling about nothing really important. I wouldnt worry too much about your bf, hes just going through a phase and this should pass. but if you find that he's doing something that you dont like then you need to let him know. id just let the book thing slide for now.Good Luck!!
2007-01-27 23:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by deere73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will only do what a book or a friend tell him he has security issues you should tell him to be a man and do what he truly feels like doing. If you feel as though you are being played - move on, I suspect your too good for him anyway!!
2007-01-27 23:38:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its not who you are to play games, then don’t engage someone on that level. Once you start there’s not getting real again and besides where will it end. It is an exhausting way to have a relationship.
These games tend to be more about power than love, so don’t play. If he wants to be with you, then it should mean getting real.
2007-01-27 23:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you're searching for for the audible voice of God, it is strictly as much as God who he talks to audibly or no longer. do no longer waste it sluggish asking a query like that. no person has the respond.
2016-09-28 02:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he doesn't know ANYTHING about being a loving, caring person.
2007-01-27 23:35:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-01-27 23:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by Emily W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋