...has never met me but i've been told that he doesn't like me?????????????? I think it may be cause my fella has been up to see me twice this month and not popped in to see his mate while he's been up here (he lives about 80 miles from us both). I've not stopped my boyf from seeing any of his mates, in fact he's been out wiv the lads both times he's been up here, just not wiv this lad. I'm going to watch the football othis Saturday and this lad is coming.....so how do play it?
2007-01-27 23:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. The problem is not yours.
2007-01-29 02:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem with my mate-he took an instant dislike to my girlfriend out of simple jealousy!! Men can be really immature and act like jealous girlfriend when their mates find someone they'd rather 'do' than them.My girlfriend played it perfctly-she was extremely nice,polite and friendly so he didn't have any reason to dislike her,he eventually gave up trying to find reasons when given no ammunition.
2007-01-27 23:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by munki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mans mate feels left out, he may think your a sacred cow and that your fella is stopping him meeting you. best way to get to know him is to go to the bar after the match and get a round in, make sure you have a pint of what they are drinking. this wont gaurantee you will get on together but its a good way of breaking the ice.
my mates stopped calling round to me when i moved in with my woman even though my door is always open. i never chose anyone over anybody this is the way life is and if people dont want to associate with me hey! i'm not going to loose sleep over it.
2007-01-27 23:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have no major worries. Some guys get jealous that their time with their friend has been infringed upon. Some guys cant have a girl friend and still hang out with the guys. Your willingness to hang out and watch fooball is cool. but if your faking it just to try to be cool find something else to do..if its for real just relax and have fun..after all its his problem, not yours..
2007-01-27 23:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by Joey D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've "been told" that he doesn't like you, now that could not be true at all. When you first meet him, be friendly and polite, like you would be with anyone you meet for the first time. Then see how he behaves towards you.
2007-01-27 23:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men get jealous when their mates get girlfriends,they think they wont see them so much etc,just be yourself and if he doesn't like you,that's his problem,good luck
2007-01-27 23:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be because he already senses that you don't know the rules of football as well as how to play it
2007-01-27 23:11:44 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
BE YOURSELF. LET YOUR GUY HANDLE IT.IF HIS MATE ACTS LIKE A JERK LET HIM SEE IT. DO NOT CONTRIBUTE TO IT. BE HAPPY LIKE YOU ARE AND DO NOT TRY TO WIN THIS GUY OVER LET HIM SEE HE IS WRONG ABOUT YOU.
2007-01-27 23:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by fdebbie2002 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋