this is a question alot of people ask me, why do guyz look for other woman when they are already in a relationship? same goes for girls? now i want to ask you... what do you think? ^_^ =)
2007-01-27 23:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by LordJapz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At the risk of making it sound like I am blaming the women, I do think that a woman MUST keep it interesting for the man. This means he must be kept pursuing her. If a man feels that he has "conquered" her then he will devalue her and think it is now OK to go and climb another mountain. Men are intrigued by women to the degree that they are strange and mysterious to them. If the mystery is gone, often so is our passion.
The chase is often better than the capture.
2007-01-27 23:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by dragunov 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think a lot of people male and female tend to look forthe next best thing.I think that a lot of guys are more visual so if they see a woman with a nicer shape or face then the one they have at home, the new woman becomes a mystery and instictively he feels he must conquer it. whereas when a woman is in a relationship and there is an emotional disconnect...she will start to look around for other guys to fufill what her boyfriend or husband is not. Not in all cases, but for the most part, men can have sex and still go home to their girlfriends or spouse and it is no big thing. But when women cheat, sex may cause them to have more of an emotional link with the guy. But I think in general men will always look for the next best thing because they are so visual.
2007-01-28 07:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't think all guys are looking, but it might be that they are just keeping the options open in case something happens. Remember, it's OK to look but not touch. This goes both ways. Lots of women I know, also look. We are not necessarily looking for something better, it's good to know what's out there so that if you become single again, you know what your options are.
2007-01-28 07:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because many are dissatisfied with who they have but are not willing to let the person go until they have a replacement. For example, if someone has a beat up old car, they may look for a new one but don't want to walk until they find one.
2007-01-28 07:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want a fulfilling relationship with the "other" woman. They just want to get off and go back to regular life. That is why men hire prostitutes.
2007-01-28 07:05:00 · answer #5 · answered by luvguns2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys look for other Women. When there is someone in their Lives. Point to remember, when they're doing that. Someone is in their "Lives". Not in their "Heart", Don't get the two confused.
2007-01-28 07:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the basic quality of greed deeply rooted in Man , when something is in hand , near and attainable , he considers it a private property , as he loves adventures , he looks for something far and new pretending that he looks for an innovation in his life
2007-01-28 07:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by mali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think either of us "looks" for it. I think it just presents itself. Its up to the person if they are going to take it further.
2007-01-28 07:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋