guys..wat dya really look for in a girl?
is it hw she looks or hw she beahves or hw she is from the inside?
2007-01-27 22:30:34 · 11 answers · asked by cookiecracker 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ya know what...It really doesn't matter what guys look for in a woman,because you can only be you.Try to find those guys that show you what you want to see in him! And just DO YOU!
2007-01-27 22:43:43 · answer #1 · answered by sarja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question, dear...
It is common with almost all guys to judge a gal on the way she looks...
Some of them like a good / slim figure in the first place...
Others will care for the color of the hair...the way she dresses up, HER MAKE-UP, her TEETH, her Smile, whether or not she wears high heels, her clothes are nicely matching......etc.
The above relates to HOW SHE LOOKS ONLY....which is NOT ENOUGH at all...in my opinion...
Those who are more aware will definitely watch a gal's behavior beside the outer look...Those are smarter.....
Does she make a sceen, does she talk loud, does she fit nicely within a group of girls around her...Is she prompt, is she slow, does she participate in a conversation, is she calm / noisy, how she re-acts, how she sits, does she listen.....etc.
The above still relates to the general out look of a girl
Those who are matured enough, will still seek a deeper knowledge of how that gal REALLY LOOKS LIKE FROM THE INSIDE, and those are the SMARTEST in my opinion...
Of course this will never be known to a guy unless he gets the opprtunity to come a bit closer for a gal to come to know her and judge the way she really is....and this usually does not occur in day one...
Therefore,
1) IF GALS ARE TAKING GOOD CARE OF THEIR BODY SHAPE
2) ARE SMART WITH THE GENERAL IMPRESSION THEY GIVE ON THEMSELVES WITH THE WAY THEY BEHAVE...
THEY WILL GIVE GUYS THE OPPORTUNITY TO COMING CLOSE TO THEM AND TO FIND ALL ABOUT THEM FOR A HOPED LONG-LASTING INTIMATE RELATIONSHHIP...
This is the best that could ever happen to a Guy & a Gal
Best of luck to you all
2007-01-28 07:08:53 · answer #2 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a combination of all 3. She can look really hot but if she is vain and conceited and stuck on herself thats a big t urn off.
2007-01-28 06:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't give you a general answer, but most guys look for some particular traits like:-
1)She must be trustworthy
2)Thoughts must match
3)Looks
The rest varies from person to person.
2007-01-28 06:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by Vignesh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who is nice, friendly and sweet. Prefer them to be outgoing and fun. Looks i'm a sucker for brunettes and curves but looks really dont mean much if i dont really feel i like them. Single atm if this sounds like you.... j/k
2007-01-28 06:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by secrethouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to focus on what makes you happy and builds your own self-esteem and image. The guys will come....trust me..us guys will come.
2007-01-28 07:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by JDOG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well emotionally...........she should b understanding, caring and loving and physically should have good face, long hair, at least medium sized booooobs...........good buttttttttttttt and a good figure................'curls' and 'curves' matter.
2007-01-28 08:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy.
2007-01-28 06:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by gingi_01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every thing what u have said and nothing . in fact guys just keep fishing and whosoever gets trapped, she is his queen.
2007-01-28 06:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by s l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i to i don't know but if you get answer then forward to my id is
rahul_mvj1@yahoo.com girls can message me
2007-01-28 06:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by rahul_mvj1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋