There is a guy i think is very attractive and he intruiges me. He comes into my work alot, he seems to be a very polite and kind person. He is very quiet from what i have noticed, not rude and loud like alot of the young guys i meet. I am attractive but i am quite unsure of myself as a person, i find it hard to flirt with guys i am attracted to. I never think guys that i like woud ever like me. I have not been at my work long at all, but he comes in alot either with his mates or alone. How will i know if he has noticed me? He seems quite reserved, has he already noticed me? How long would it take before i know wether i have a shot?
2007-01-27 22:18:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has noticed you. Just be yourself, instead of thinking of impressing. don't let opportunity pass you by. I once had a guy come into my work like you described, then one day I had the chance to ask him to a ball and didn't.....he had hinted and was too shy to ask. I never came in again, because he thought I wasn't interested in him. So don't let your feelings be put aside for a shyness, or lack of confidence.
2007-01-27 22:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him and show him your interested, he just may be shy, and not sure on how to approach you. It's not wrong for the woman to make the first move, and you would feel awfully bad if you didnt make the first move and he stopped comming around and found another lady he might be interested in. I'm sorry if I'm soundin harsh but I dont mean to.
Good Luck!
2007-01-28 06:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he singles you out and specifically talks to you or making a point of smiling at you or even catching a glance, then be sure he is interested.
Wait and be yourself, he needs to make his interets known, Men need to work for the attention of a woman. You are worth the effort!
2007-01-28 06:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask around and make sure he is good enough for you!
If so, go right up to him and ask to talk to him alone. Then tell him that you like him. Then let him go next. But remember you are to choose who you end up with. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 06:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by christy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a reason to make contact. When he is in your place of work, walk pass him, if eye contact is made, Stop introduce your self and shake his hand. Make the opportunity for him to know who you are. You can also try, asking others about him. We all have something to offer, know that you do to. Don't spend your life waiting for something to happen, make it happen.
2007-01-28 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He comes in a lot, alone? It seems perhaps that he has already noticed you. Just keep being you and he will come around.
2007-01-28 06:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go and ask him .
2007-01-28 06:35:51 · answer #7 · answered by cute gul 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋