im 22yrs. being sex with one guy many are asking to come to their home. wat should i do? my bf did sex and said at last that he will not marry me. im pregnant now. i have no one to say this problems. should i plead him to marry me. wat should i do. before i did sex with many members but took condoms. this time i did not took because he said that he will marry me and i simply accepted him. every day he is calling to sex. now i did many times (may be 50 times) sex with him and at last i fall pregnant. and he said that he will not marry me. i want to die. if i ask him again he is saying we will do sex again but i will not marry u. he is very rude. wat should i do now? im very confused.
2007-01-27 22:01:45 · 24 answers · asked by suni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have thought of that before you had unprotected sex. Now you must live the rest of your life in disgrace.
Sorry for you.
2007-01-27 22:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
Stop having sex with him immediately.
Stop the relationship with him NOW!
Go see a doctor and find out all your options. Seek planned parenthood and they might be able to help you decide what to do next. Find counseling.
And from now on...don't have sex with just any guy. Get to know him really well before having sex. Be smart. You don't want this to happen again.
Don't plead for him to marry you either. It'll only end up in divorce. You can, however, make him pay for this child since he's half responsible for this baby too....and that's for the rest of this child's life. You choose your options though. What's best for you. Remember too, there are tons of people out there who would love your baby if you decide to adopt.
Take care and hang in there.
2007-01-27 22:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 03:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darn, when will females realize that unprotected sex not only can you get pregnant you also run the risk of catching every disease under the sun.
And when will woman realize men will take anything offered on a plate say thank you with a smirk and walk away.
Sorry but now you pay the price for being another fool and another poor unwanted soul in the world.
2007-01-27 22:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by LMH 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you fell deeply into this man's trap, he never intended to marry you, he just wanted sex and you fell for it! Why couldn't you have used a condom like you did with the 'MANY' members. What are you? A pro or something? If I was you, I would admit I made a mistake in beleiving this man, have an abortion and be more careful in the future. Good luck!
2007-01-27 22:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you from a different country hun? Sounds like this guy is a huge butthead. Wants sex without a condem then ditches you when you get pregnant.. my wifes pregnant right now(6 months a girl. :) ) and the thought of abortion sickens me... but there are other options, it all depends on your financial situation. This is definately going to be a learning lesson for you. You say you've had sex with many men.. Were you sleeping with all these men around the same time without them knowing about the other?? Lying to them telling them your only sleeping with them and then sleeping with another man the next day or hour?? Well it sounds like this man is doing to you what you were possibly doing to other men... LYING,telling you what you wanted to hear so he can get what he wants ,nothing more.
2007-01-27 22:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Blizzzard 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
refuse to have sex with him again, he used u, made u think he loved u, u have to love yourself, and not allow these people to use u, they aren't interested in u only what they can get off of u. u can't believe everything that someone tells u, and should save yourself for the real thing, marriage. when u give it away so cheaply it hurts your self worth after awhile. do not have sex with this person again, he is using u for this, has no intention of marrying u and giving the baby a name. he got what he wanted and now he doesn't want the responsibility. will pray for u, u still have your child, don't worry about him, get him out of your life, as he really doesn't want u except for one thing. don't allow yourself to be used in the future, get to know a person and their intentions for u before u give it away so cheaply.
2007-01-27 22:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stand up for your rights. Say no more sex. And if he still wont marry you then tell him to look forward to paying child support for the next 18 years.
You should never have had sex with him unprotected though and in a way his reaction is your own fault.
Why would he want to buy the cow when he can get the milk for free???
2007-01-27 22:11:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
grammar good grief how are you ever going to raise a kid like that? do what u want have an abortion (murder the baby) if u want otherwise theres always adoption or raising your child plenty of people do it. neither of u need a man in your life... and u might want to stop slutting around before the baby has a dent in its head from so many ***** hitting it..... or you end up with AIDS or something just as bad and end up dead and then your kid can be an orphan don't people think before they have sex...... condoms birth control... stupid people shouldn't breed and this is a good example of why... I'm not being a witch just honest
2007-01-27 22:17:00 · answer #9 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing you should do is stop letting this guy use you for sex. The second thing you should do is see a doctor to discuss your options, you could consider a termination since having this unplanned baby will tie you to this guy for life, one way or another. He's made it plain he doesn't care for you so make the best decision for you and the baby. When the pregnancy is taken care of, whatever you choose, return to full-time education, learn to spell, learn the rules of English Grammar and try to develop some common sense. JEEZ!
2007-01-27 22:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First- don;t have sex with that man again--he;s been useing you all along---you said you had no one to turn too---go to his parents and tell them the situation---that thier son got you pregnant and thay are soon to have a grand child---with any luck they want be the same kind of a bastard as thier son and help you in someway or another---if they want help then get some support from a government agency---don;t try to deal with this on your own--------if i can help you in any way contact me--i;ll do what i can.
2007-01-27 22:37:48 · answer #11 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋