on friday i got really drunk and kissed a boy three times, i didn't hardly know the boy and now i feel really bad to my boyfriend, should i tell him or leave it be and just never do it again?
2007-01-27 21:40:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As you don't know the boy you kissed that well the chances are that the news will not get to your boyfriend. I should just leave it alone, because if you mention it, it may course more questions and a bad atmosphere, you obviously didn't want to do what you did, so just try and control your drinking habits instead.
2007-01-27 21:51:11 · answer #1 · answered by mellouckili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to put yourself in his shoes. Would you want to know?
Personally, I'd tell him, as I couldn't stand the guilt. But then again, as it was nothing, there may be no need.
It depends on your boyfriends morals, whether he considers kissing someone whilst drunk a "meaningless" thing or not. If it would upset him - tell him! Sounds daft, but imagine it coming from someone elses mouth.
If it comes from you - it could infact spark of a huge trust debate, resulting in knowing your boundries with each other, thus affirming the relationship and you becomming stronger :)
Don't worry about it - he should understand.
:)
Luce xxxx
2007-01-27 22:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Luchia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, just curb your drunken behaviour in the future so you don't get labeled as a ****.
Many people kiss other people in drunken states, it don't mean a lot as long as that is as far as it went.
If the guy you kissed expects it to happen again, just say that it was a moment of weakness and it did not have any real romantic reason, beyond curiosity
2007-01-27 21:47:24 · answer #3 · answered by Shelty K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you tell him, dont use drunk as an excuse, just say you made a mistake. If you dont tell him, then its also ok. You dont have to tell him everything. Its best to let himself find out that u r cheating on him. Thats where all the inspirations from hollywood movies come about!
2007-01-27 21:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it,as long as it was just a kiss,but next time dont get so drunk
2007-01-27 21:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, let him know so dat u can set free from your secret (which was u just kissed a boy 3 times). If he's mad, tell him that you were drunk and blame him for not being there when you need him at dat time. hah! he can't answer dat!
2007-01-27 21:59:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him be prepared to be dumped. if you cant control yourself when your drinking then u shouldnt drink..... once a cheater always a cheater and you cant say it will never happen again cause you didnt intend for it to happen to begin with it just did..... tell him.... b prepared to get dumped and hope like hell for the best
besides if u were that drunk you wouldnt have known that you kissed him 3 times. obviously you still had plenty of control
2007-01-27 22:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you know that you kissed a boy and THREE times?!!! Were you really drank?!!
Whatever, do not tell your bf and never do it again!
2007-01-27 21:51:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only report it to your partner when you kiss someone 5 times. Never any less than that and even then it's only optional at that higher point.
Are you old enough to drink?
2007-01-27 21:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by laughingspam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what kan i say um this is not love u r 13 havin a laught u no jus part of growin up, me on other hand was in love i told him and he never trust me again it drove me up d wall so we split good luk tel him thoe ul feel better and if u like him dont do it again
2007-01-28 05:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋