my last bf used to comeround mine for a while and then say he needs to get the bus home and id say id walk him to the bus stop that like a 3 mins walk and he always say no thats ok and go by him self i found out he then go and see his ex instead of go home
now this new guy i fancy comes round and when he has to get the bus i offer to walk him and he says no as well
should i trust this guy and hope he just dont want me having to wait in the cold with him or should i be suspious
2007-01-27 21:30:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your problem and be open with him about what your last man did. He should understand and maybe let you walk with him to the bus once to show you he can be trusted. If he sees how much it bothers you then if he cares he will understand.
2007-01-27 21:35:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the experience with your old bf spoil this romance. Give your new bf the benefit of the doubt. If he is not to be trusted you will soon find out, however not wanting you to walk him to the bus stop is no reason to stop trusting your bf. Who knows he could be a really nice person. I'm not saying you have to trust him no matter what, i'm just saying give it some time.
2007-01-28 05:39:47 · answer #2 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't want you to walk him. Perhaps, if the relationshipis strong enough, you can be honest about your concern. What is his demeanor when he says no to your offer? Is it shady and weird, or is it polite? He may not want you to walk him because he doesn't want to put you out. You don't have to jump to conclusions based on the actions of a bad apple. It is good to be cautious but don't let the other guy dictate your future. This guy may be a good one.
2007-01-28 05:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by JustTalking 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel..my ex boyfriend would do the same to me. but i really think its all insecurity...you have all the right to feel that way because it happened before. but dont let the past come into the present. give him a chance if you really "fancy" him... try not to think about it...if it really bothers you then talk to him and let him know how you feel. if he has a problem with it then hes not one you want to keep...if he doesnt understand or respect your feelings then thats a sign...but im sure he will understand! best of luck!
2007-01-28 05:36:17 · answer #4 · answered by Suze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start walkin with him.... if he gets on the bus fine if he pitches a fit about you comming with him then hes up to something so check it out. most of the time people say no when they know its outta the way for you
2007-01-28 05:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by jingles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear u being cheated once, but why let the past affects u? learn to trust again i have to say but now trust with a pair of sharp eyes.. from experience u can see in his eyes when he cheats u.. eyes are window to the soul..
2007-01-28 05:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hello 2012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same story and same answer from 2 different guys...no wonder you feel hard to trust. ask the new guy why he wouldn't let you walk him....just simply ask before your imaginations run to the negative direction. no 2 persons are the same....give him the benefit of doubt!
2007-01-28 05:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by xyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you can't trust him, then let him go. Save yourself the headache of being insecure.
2007-01-28 05:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by Honey83 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude just insist, walk with him.... If he makes that big a deal out of it then you know he's doing something he's not supposed to....
2007-01-28 05:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Blizzzard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you didn't trust the last bf doesn't mean that you can't trust this one.
But I would check on him.
2007-01-28 05:35:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋