Alright, so I've been going out with my gf since summer, and the relationship is getting pretty stale. I've been bored out of my mind! Well we used to party all kinds and the sex was great, but now everything is just boring. I have an extremely short attention span and rarely go out with people, I prefer just hooking up, so maybe it's my old habits kicking in. Anyway, one of my friends on the swim team had a party and i met this girl who is like everything I want in my gf and current relationship. Me and the new girl are currently hooking up every time we see each other and I feel guilty, yet I can't decide what to do, because they both have traits that like, and it's to hard to choose! Both are damn hot so neither can beat the other by looks. BTW, I'm 15 and in high school. Don't tell me to stop treating people like objects because it's more complex than that.
2007-01-27 21:18:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh wow j_mang, you're so tough telling off a teenager
2007-01-27 21:26:09 · update #1
Are you serious? Don't you know it's never ok to cheat. No exceptions. If your real girlfriend isn't putting out tell her to get packing. Ask yourself how you'd feel if she was cheating on you. Also how you'd feel if the other girl was hooking up with heaps of other guys... this should help you decide between the 2. If you pick your current girlfriend lets hope she never finds out. Girls get their hearts broken very easily at your age so be prepared for her to go physco. Rest assured though it's highly unlikely you'll be together in the long term so does any of it really matter? Stick to hooking up if you can't help being a cheat!
2007-01-27 21:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, is under no circumstances alright to cheat less than any situations If the tables were grew to grow to be and it became you in his concern you would not like this to take position If he shows no pastime in sex (would I ask how previous is he? in his 50s?) then some thing else may be occurring i ought to signify you're taking a seat and refer to him. Then pay interest to what he says, extremely pay interest! Is it he's intimidated through your sexchronic and your youthful age? no longer attracted anymore? Too drained for sex? Bored? Scared? there are various of motives someone would stay away from sex If there is love and also you wanting to stay jointly propose he sees a specialist
2016-10-16 05:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never a good idea to cheat, even if you're bored with ur current gf. If you still have doubts by now just break it off. Be honest and tell ur current gf why you feel you shouldn't be together. It will be blunt and may hurt but sooner or later she'll realize why it was a good idea and maybe even be thankful you didnt' cheat on her. Good luck!
2007-01-27 21:59:16 · answer #3 · answered by tanya_rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel cheating is okay, you wouldn't have posted something here or mentioned you feel guilty. easy, just choose one and be happy with the one you choose. cheating is not a good habit esp. you're starting young. just remember: what comes around goes around. there's no easy way out. god bless you someone you love one day will return the love to you! peace---
2007-01-27 21:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are ready to move on despite how much you like your girlfriend.. then let her go and move on. When you are dating as an adult, you will be asked.. 'have you ever cheated'. Your answer will help your then girlfriend judge you. And if you lie to her.. then that will make her judge you to. Just don't be that guy. Break up with the girl before you sleep with someone else
2007-01-27 21:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you never get married. how can you do that. just because the sex isnt the best anymore doesnt mean you should cheat. cheating is wrong anyway it goes. if you want to be with the other girl, leave your current girl.
2007-01-28 00:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by young grown man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn! that's bad... cheating is not ok in any situations. (for me) Well, it's up to you to answer which of them you like or should I say.... choose the one you love. Don't play your girl dude.. you're making your life worst. You are just adding problems in to your life. Why don't you tell her frankly what's wrong???
2007-01-27 21:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Aira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come back in a few years after you grow up---but by then you may not need to ask this question again---by then one of the girls your useing will have kicked your butt and lined you out----the sooner the better.
2007-01-27 21:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh grow up!
If you think you are bored now, just wait until you get a job, punk.
2007-01-27 21:23:21 · answer #9 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is NEVER okay!!! Choose before you loose both of them.
2007-01-27 21:25:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋