When he knew first he would avoid me. So sense we work together I decided to give him some space. But sense I was not giving him so much eye contact as before. He was acting all goofy around me trying to get my attention, and looking at me. I caught him two times looking at me. Which I was not expecting. Now Im really confuse, I don't have a crush on him. But when I notice him he ignores me but when I don't he wants me to notice him.
2007-01-27 20:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Questions 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's the "I want you to want me even if I don't want you" mentallity. He probably likes the fact that you think he's attractive, it boosts his ego. A lot of men are like that and it is frustrating because they give mixed signals, really the best thing to do is to continue giving him space and being uninterrested. Why? Because you know he doesn't really like you, so why continue to feed him the attention to make him feel better while it's not doing anything positive for youself? And if he keeps doing things to try and get your attention, just ignore him and let it pass. Doing this will let him know that you aren't some foolish girl who will pursue and run after the affection of someone who has made it clear that he doesn't want you. Hope this helps and good luck with it!
2007-01-27 20:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he sensed something in the air with you looking at him and now he's wondering what's up. He may think there is still some feelings you have for him, who knows people are funny like that don't notice or appreciate a good thing till it's gone. If you really want to know have a conversation and see where it leads. Feel out his vibes...only if you think it's worth it I noticed you said you no longer had a crush on him.
2007-01-28 04:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know... being up front is a good way to try and put an end to the cat & mouse game.A Good way to start off would be "You know,I was thinking".... you fill in the blanks.
2007-01-28 05:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by sarja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no guy would resist a girl if the girl thought he was attractive. theyd b more friendly even though they dont want 2 go out wit u or hav a relationship. guys like 2 b close friends wit girls. nd infact best friends witout havin love. guys liek 2 b open wit girls. and like to kno wat girls think bout dem. plus guys dont like gettin caught while they're eyeing at the girl they like. bcuz they dont want u 2 kno they like u..
2007-01-28 04:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by silk_escore 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well.. u have to ask urself this question then, would you want to get to know him better as a fren first? if yes, build a friendship with him first then see how it goes
2007-01-28 04:30:44 · answer #5 · answered by rlsh07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you don't have a crush on him, leave it as it is with no involvement of any dimension in you for him.
2007-01-28 04:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on with your life, you will meet someone better and pass him if you are not having a crash on him.
2007-01-28 04:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he ignored u initially ........now he wants u .......as u have ignored him..............so simply understand ............he if feeling weired that u r not attracted to him ..........and he wants u to be attracted to him.......... if u like this guy go and talk to him.........if u dint like him just forget him....enjoy your life...........
2007-01-28 04:33:48 · answer #8 · answered by sagitarius....25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS ATTITUDE OF THE BOYS . THEY DIDN'T UNDERSTAND THE FEELINGS OF GIRLS THEY LOOK JUST FOR MAJE
2007-01-28 04:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by deepika b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋