Men don't want to be just friends and get frustrated by me and hurt when I say no. I think I want one, but if I get the opportunity I lose interest
2007-01-27 20:21:26 · 12 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal because I sometimes feel like that, I develope crushes. But I don't feel like dating though. I develope a crush because I like the feeling of something that I can't have but when I do I just loose interest. It just means you are not ready for dating.
2007-01-27 20:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Questions 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea that's totally normal. I read about something like that somewhere. There ARE other people who just aren't interested in starting a relationship with anyone(if only I could remember the word for it) And the men that can't cope? That's something that THEY need to handle, not you.
2007-01-28 04:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by blueJay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's really no reason why you should aspire to be normal. Especially when it's such a subjective term. Maybe you just haven't found the right person and that's why you don't want a relationship right now. Don't stress yourself over it. Enjoy your time being single, Mr Right will be along shortly.
2007-01-28 04:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that it's normal to not get invovled but rather you want friendship because u have not met the right one yet. the choice is yours and you should not let anything or anyone influences you into making any decision. Men are hurt because they cannot get what they want but they should also understand love cannot be forced.
2007-01-28 04:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by rlsh07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not common, but it doesn't make you a leper. If you don't want a relationship, you shouldn't be made to have one. I'm proud of you for choosing this path. You get the Rio Madeira Seal of Approval!
2007-01-28 10:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think too many people operate under the notion that getting a girlfriend is the goal of life. IT seems like you have your head together.
2007-01-28 04:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wouldnt bother me if a girl just wanted to be friends at all.
2007-01-28 04:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by secrethouse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal, perhaps you only want someone to listen to you. Men normally cannot accept platonic friendships.. i wonder why too.
2007-01-28 04:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares theres no point in living just go on a killing spree then shoot yourself when the cops are about to get you
2007-01-28 04:24:59 · answer #9 · answered by hollisterscenekid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meh who cares!! if you just wanna be friends with everyone then so be it!!! If your having fun doing wat your doing then dont change!! Theres heaps of time to go into a relationship - why hurry?? you have the rest of your life!! :-D
2007-01-28 04:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋