What Should I Do To Make Him Like Me Back?

Question

I like this neighbor of mine. He's the kind of guy that keeps to himself unless you get to know him really well. He knows about my major crush on him, but the thing is, I didn't tell him myself. If he knows that I'm crazy about him, why isn't he making the first move?I've been crushing on him for like 7 months already. Should I give up, after all the hard work I've done to win his heart or should I continue to go after him?Or do I pretend not to like him, so that he'll realize that and start to notice me?Or just remain friends?

Answer 1

1. Be sure that his attention is what you want. Don't try to get a guy to look your way just because you want attention and you want to feel good about yourself. You don't want to lead someone on. You could end up in a very awkward or uncomfortable situation--see the Warnings below.

2. Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not. Any guy who does want a fake kind of girl is not a guy whose attention is worth having. Resist the temptation to put on a show or to do anything that just isn't you just to get his attention.

3. Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc. It's a good idea to change things up once in a while, just because variety's the spice of life, and it might help you catch his eye.

4. Smile and make eye contact. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. Unless it really makes you feel artificial, learn how to shoot people a reassuring smile, letting them know that you're a happy and confident person who wants to enjoy life. The idea is to communicate that you're inviting their company.



5. Flirt. Do it as little or as much as you want, but remember that too much flirting (especially with other guys) will likely get him to take notice, but perhaps not in a good way.

6. Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him. Take interest in the activities he's interested in him, not just so that you can get near him but also so that you can get to know him better and so you can broaden your own horizons.

7. Talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question. Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. You could even compliment him or ask for help.
Make him feel special. There's got to be a reason that you want him to notice you, and that's because you noticed him first. Let him know--subtly--that you're interested in who he is, that you respect something about him, and that you sincerely want to get to know him better.

8. Be brave and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. Ultimately, this will catch the attention and respect of someone who is going to work well for you, even if it turns out not to be this guy.



Tips
Be sure to have gum, breath mints, Listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly, especially if you're hoping to start a conversation.

It's always a good idea to keep yourself well-groomed. While there are guys who get uncomfortable and intimidated if you're all dolled up, it never hurts to stick to a few hygiene basics: shower daily, brush your teeth regularly, use deodorant, keep your hair decent (not perfect, but decent), and take care of your skin. Better yet, stay healthy!

Speak your mind. You're not a drone, and any guy worth having will love it. Just don't scare them by going into a spiel. It's a turn-on to see a girl who loves her mind, not one who's bent on world domination. Likewise, don't get caught up in complaining (about yourself, others, your circumstances). Negativity pushes others away, and it lowers your self-esteem.

If you cannot relate to any of his interests, or even make a genuine effort to get into it, there will never be ground for a lasting relationship anyway. Dump your intentions now.
Being too straightforward might mean leaving him bored. One way to get someone's attention is to make him curious, and that means leaving him guessing to some degree.

Answer 2

What makes a woman attractive to a man?


In fact every woman sends out signals to men. Most men can detect and read your signals in a matter of seconds. The first pulses you emit are your dress and your body language.


It’s incredibly easy for a woman to attract attention from men. Just wear skin-tight, thigh-length, revealing clothing. You’ll get lots of male attention. But will it be the kind of attention you want? Fishermen insist that the fish you catch is determined by the bait you use.


Would you like to make yourself more appealing to a man who will be attracted to you as a person and not as an object? If so, remember these tips to keep in mind when trying to attract a man.


Confidence is the number one attraction. Being more confident with yourself and your surroundings will attract someone that is equal to you. You will also notice that more people are drawn to you.

Appearance is also a big issue. Your appearance and body language may catch his attention, but it takes personality and charm to sustain a man's interest.

Realize you only have one chance to make a good first impression. If he sees you when you are at your worst then he will not want to look a second time.


Give a man a reason to think about you. Wear a lingering fragrance that haunts his memory, soft clothes that he yearns to touch and a smile that he can't get out of his mind. And don’t forget to leave a little something to the imagination. An air of mystery can be provocative and appealing to a man.


Make him feel important by focusing your full attention on him. Listen intently to what he has to say and respond with respect for his opinions, laugh at his jokes no matter how lama they are, take an interest in his interests.


And finally – don't try and be something you are not. He will be falling for a false idol and will not want to know you when he sees the real you. Let him know you're different from all the rest. Emphasize your originality through your personality, intelligence and behavior.

Answer 3

Well, first of all he knows you like him. Now it's time for you to pretend not to want him, continue to do things in a manner which you show self respect for yourself, and feel worthy about yourself. I'm not saying you don't, but for him not to see you in a way where he will want to be with you for the wrong reasons, examples, because he feels sorry for you and to just do it for a need, because he knows you want him so bad. Stick around, but not as you would normally do, and don't talk about other guys, but do things like a normal person would invite some girl friends over, and or do things with your friends, and when you do go hang out fix yourself up so nice, and sexy, you will leave him thinking...Let him come around asking you how your day went or night, and if he is not showing any interest he might just like you as a friend, so respect that. Don't talk about other guys, so he wont see you like your all out there, and he will see how serious you are about him, but that you have a life and that he is not in your brain 24/7, when you know he is...It's called the challenge game, don't do to much to impress him anymore, no fun!

Answer 4

Well, first of all...no offense guys...but boys are dense. There's all kinds of answers to this. Could be he didn't take it seriously when he heard you liked him, after all it was hearsay. Could be that he's shy especially if he keeps to himself. Could be he's not interested. Best thing to do is suck it up and make a move. Invite him out or over to chill. Be casual but let him know you're interested.

What is all this "hard work" you've done? You say he didn't find out from you. Guys don't usually get subtle hints. Be brave, let him know.

Answer 5

Make up ur mind and do any of the following
1.Go directly and propose him
2.Wait for him to break out that he has the same crush on u
3.If he is too shy u have no other go other than to call him for a date and propose him
My personal opinion is that coz he is like that u propse him by saying " I love u , I don't know what you would fell but I felt like telling it to u without telling my heart is too too heavy
So wither u accept or reject it is ur decision
I would accept both
But after wards keep talking to me even if u reject"
Say this and c what happens
He will break out his love and crush upon You

Answer 6

Continue with the situation of remaining friends and on an opportune time, you could emphasis your crush on him resulting everything positively.

Answer 7

go over and ask him if he would go out on a date. If he says yes GREAT, if he says no be prepared for it and move on. anything else is waisting your time. He could just be shy and not Believe the other person or he may not necessarily like women.

Answer 8

Life is too short to play mind games and the world could end tomorrow.

Introduce yourself and get to know him. It doesn't hurt. He probably is shy.

Just don't go forcing yourself on him too much by making it too obvious that you like him. Most guys like challenges.

Sigh...The perils of dating.

Answer 9

im in the same boat hunny, men are so thick. You could always try making the first move, might get some results, or at least closure.

Answer 10

Just get to know him... say hi hello.. how r u stuff.. and then once u have crossed this bridge, u will automatically know when to approach him for a relationship...