I'm crushing Bigtime on this guy, but I don't think he likes me back. He confided in another friend, and told him that we could never be together. My friend then told me what he said.
Should I forget about him?Or not give up?
Please help me, I'm so confused. When I heard the news, I immediately broke into tears..I really liked him. But what should I do, now that I know he doesn't like me back?
2007-01-27
19:42:01
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Jayden
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➔ Singles & Dating
Oh yeah, and he's my neighbor...
2007-01-27
19:42:44 ·
update #1
hi Delilah, i feel so bad for u cuz just as much can make u feel like a million dollars it can rip your heart into shreads and take the air out of your chest when u get new such as someone u love doesn't love u back.
u can do two things:
one, try to make him jealous by having a new fake boyfrined because he might not want u cuz u r too easy to get. he knows that at any given time he can have u so if u play hard to get and stop calling him and 'courting' him he might actually take notice of it and run after u for a change (but if he does don't get too excited cuz once he has u he might dump u just for the knowledge that u r easy material again - guys tend to be jerks)
two - you can actually try to let go, slowly cuz it's not easy, by going out bowling, movies etc, having fun and let your best friend that u want to find someone else, so they'll help u forget him and find u somone new, and u might actually find Mr. right. the guy who wants to love u back.
good luck cuz there isn't any easy way out in love and war.
2007-01-27 19:55:48
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answered by Me 2
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For whatever reason, he's just not interested. You should give up trying to get with him. You really can't help liking him but I'm sure over time, you'll stop liking him and forget why you liked him in the first place. Do your best to move on, go out with other guys and chalk it up to a life lesson that we all learn at some point. We've all been rejected, that's life.
2007-01-27 19:49:08
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answered by Anonymous
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if your friend is reliable it sounds as tho he isnt interested but u have an advantage with him living next door i would say try giving him less attention and go on with your life, he knows u like him right? if he likes u he will come around..but then again we always want the ones that dont want us maybe it is the challenge that attracts us..i have come to find out...once u know them better you really didnt like em anyway
2007-01-27 19:50:19
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answered by becky l 1
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concentrate on building your self esteem up. it sounds like you need it. you broke into tears because he didn't like you? honey, you need to relax, and find someone that actually cares about you, and is not a one-sided thing. not everyone is going to like you all the time.
2007-01-27 19:51:10
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answered by Anonymous
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you can't always believe in hear say because most of the time it isn't true. if you really like this guy talk to him and ask him if he really said that and why he said it. and if it is true then move on. good luck :)
2007-01-27 19:49:16
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answered by me 5
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maybe u should let it go. u cant force him 2 like u. find some1 new who cares and wants 2 be with u. it him that missed out :)
2007-01-27 19:47:44
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answered by Laura4864 2
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If you are sure that he doesn't like you, better get rid off.
2007-01-27 19:47:18
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answered by mkm 4
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Do you love? Do you hope? Fight... use intelligent ways... sure
2007-01-28 01:56:32
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answered by simplegirl 5
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