Would you stay in a relationship if....?

Question

all you did was fight, but in your heart you were still in love?

Answer 1

Yes..

Answer 2

First, you need to know the meaning of relationship. Then you
two need to sit down and really evaluate the relationship. Because if they is going to be your life partner, then you two need some serious over hauling. Relationship are to get to know each other, it is nothing wrong with you loving him, but you need to guard your heart first. People are going to tell you leave and some are going to tell you to stay, that is going to be up to you both. Step back and take a look at the relationship and really see were it is going. Ask yourself is this all I am worth fighting every day in and out, if fighting is verbal or physical it is abuse, and you are better than that, you do not need a man or woman in your life who does not respect you.

Answer 3

No, not unless you feel in your heart you both can grow up, and realize that this is affecting your relationship and that it is important to understand that this is serious. Fighting leads to worse or helps you both get to know each other better for the best, or just helps you both grow more resentment, and insecurity against one another, and it's just a waste of time for both. It can be healthy to argue at times, but if its getting verbal, and very abusive, it will eventually lead to physical abuse. Think about it and or just get out of the relationship and move on. You will heal from that love, and learn to fall in love again. It's just a matter of time, and think about yourself whats best for you, and you know in your heart what is best. Don't hold on to some little great moments, if you do decide to stay with your partner, get counseling...

Answer 4

I would try to find a better way to communicate with the person I love. I've been in a relationship where all we did was fight but, I still stayed because I loved them, we just found a better way to work it out.

Answer 5

Sounds like the only thing you love in your relationship is the love of fighting. If all you do is fight then you shouldn't be together. Don't try to put the square peg through the round hole!

Answer 6

I don't know if this is true but i read somewhere that u don't really love someone unless u fight with them a lot. It's like if u guys don't fight, u don't really know each other all that well, but if u do fight often, and u makeup everytime- that's means ur really in love.
Hope it works out! <3

Answer 7

I think if that was the case and I still loved my partner I would try and get some counselling to stop the constant fighting, as fighting all the time is not good for anyone.

Answer 8

well you have to fight for what you want. but there has to be a line of what is too much fighting, if the fighting is making you miserable then you may be better off seeing how things go by having a break..whats the saying..if you love something set it free if it comes back its yours to keep if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be. good luck

Answer 9

I think I would...I am a person who cannot go against her heart. Fights will eventually weaken the love in my heart and I would then be able to leave.

Answer 10

it depend on many factures
r there children involved, how long you have been together... etc
i was in such a relationship. we were crazy in love but some how we driftted appart, but i still tried my best, (only i found out he was cheating on me) he has claimed that it was cuz we had no comunication between us and he's right. we lost that feeling where we spoke to each other about everything in our life. (we're still together and working harder than eve to make it work and every once in a while i'll break just thinking about what he's done but he tries si hard to please me and love me in any possible cuz he loves me, that i retrospect it was worth it we now know how a real relationship works. there is a book called "ten minutes a day to abetter marriage" writen by some kind of rabbi, but it works wonders, it helps u build a strong relationship where everyone gets almost everything they want...
good luck cuz it's not easy to wotk on relationships.
but love is worth it ALL.

Answer 11

Yall just need to communicate better & try to see where the other is coming from.What made me & my long time roommate like a brother & I stop fighting is when I realized that maybe he feels worse than I do.Is that possible?And I dont know,,over time,,you learn more about the other person & it kind of smooths out.