What should I do?

Question

I'm extremely stressed out about college right and my boyfriend tried to help me relax but when I couldn't relax he got all irritated and said fine then I just won't care about your stress level anymore. I called him a jerk for saying but later on i apologized because I just wanted us to be ok. I didn't want another issue to deal with on top of college acceptance/rejection letters. I just thought he would understand how much stress i'm under. I don't want to fail my parents or the people around me because they all have such high expectations for me. Then when i tried to apologize to him i said i'm sorry for irritating u he didn't even care he shut me down. I'm so helpless what should i do?

Answer 1

You definitely need to calm down and look at things in perspective. Think about the worst thing that could happen, and think of a back up plan. But most of all you need to live for yourself, and not your parents. I have wasted so much time trying to do what I thought other people wanted me to do. It just made me miserable. You need to work towards things for yourself. If you fail, everybody who loves you will help you pick up the pieces and you'll try again...

Answer 2

Try to relax and not stress too much, because it can lead to much bigger problems, like anxiety disorder or you can have a panic attack. I've been super stressed about what I'm gonna do when I graduate, and have been having panic attacks. Believe me, you do not want to stress yourself out so much to where you have one. As for your boyfriend, he probably got frustrated because he wants to help you, but realizes he can't really do anything to stop you from feeling the way you do. Boys have weird ways of dealing w/ their emotions. I think he does still care about you. You should try not to think about the expectations that other people put on you. Just remember, this too shall pass and try to keep a positive mind. Good Luck w/ your boyfriend and try to chill out a little, ok? Hope my advice helps. bye.

Answer 3

hey... understand one thing... nothing can bother anyone for long... so dnt worry about ur coll... something will turn up without doubt, whether u bother about it or not... d result wil b d same... so its better to wait till the final result come... n be brave enough to face watever comes... remember one thing god wont throw upon u something tat u cant handle... n about ur boyfriend... maybe its because he knows tat u'll appologise after every quarrels tat he put u down always... dnt think tat fault is always on ur side.. WE HAVE GOT JUST ONE LIFE TO LIVE,DNT SPOIL IT WIT TENSIONS.......... ENJOY IT TO D MAXIMUM

Answer 4

Just relax and be yourself.He will be fine.

Answer 5

be patient and lett him calm down he'll come to you when he's ready