Do you think if you try hard enough you are going to find someone perfect for you? or, do you think one day you just need to settle down with someone that you are with at that point?
2007-01-27 18:25:48 · 27 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Soul mate means different things to different people at different times of their lives. When I was younger it meant a long haired muscular Adonis. Now it means a man that realizes the importance of intimacy. When I was younger I wanted adventure, now I want someone to talk about books, movies, ideas with me. So now my soul mate would be well read, able to both teach me and learn from me. We would enjoy walking in the woods, visiting a new city, going home and holding hands. Bottom line your soul mate is the person that will grow with you, inspire you, and stick with you through thick and thin. Make sure you really like the person you marry. Don't "settle" but choose the person you want to walk into the sunset with.
2007-01-27 18:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi 21, Yes, i do believe in soulmates. There will never be anyone perfect for you. There is no perfect person alive. But a soulmate is as close to perfect for you.I did settle down with whom,and i am divorcing him,final 2-8-07.( took me 14 mos. to get my divorce, long story). I have found my true soulmate,and we are like one. I know what he is going to say,and i can feel is emotions.He does the same to me. We were together 34 years ago,and i let this beautiful man wake out of my life.I will not let this happen again. We are meant to be together,and we believe GOD is giving us a second chance. So,Yes there are really soulmates out there for each one of us. The problem,is just finding them. A Friend
Clowmy
2007-01-28 02:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many soul mates for one person. There are only three great loves though. Honestly in my experience, the best way to get what your really want is to make a list, no holes barred. Be honest and then let it go. The universe or God or whatever you believe in will take this understanding and bring you face to face with perfection. It works. I have personally seen it happen twice in my life.
2007-01-28 02:33:36 · answer #3 · answered by Eddie L 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I completely believe in soul mates. It might take some time to find that person, but they are out there. It really depends on if the person is willing to just settle for whoever they are with just to get married or if they want to be married to the right person and wait until they find him/her. I am so glad I waited because I could be happier.
2007-01-28 02:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The notion of "soulmates" started in medieval fantasy and has been perpetuated by Hollywood. It's nonsense that gets in the way of happiness for a lot of people. Don't expect perfection in a mate, expect another person full of the same sort of problems that are in you.
2007-01-28 02:35:38 · answer #5 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes I think that every one has a soulmate and if you feel that this person is the right one then settle down with them. You can have a lot of happiness if you choose the right person.
2007-01-28 02:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by karen v 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally think that some people have just one soulmate and that others have more than that. A soulmate is someone who you love deeply and whos to say that you have just one? But to answer your question i say yes, you have at least one soulmate out there
2007-01-28 02:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by michakitty87 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are looking for your soul mate, quit trying. You'll know it when that person walks into your life. That's the joy of life. Like I told my daughter... you have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince. Don't settle for a person just to be in a relationship, wait and enjoy life and that person will waltz right on in.. Have fun!
2007-01-28 02:35:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmm...very interesting question, my opinion would be not to settle unless of course your biological clock is ticking and having children is important. Nothing in life is for sure the only person you have to please is yourself. Follow your heart, listen to what it says. Stop looking, life is strange when you least expect it that's when you're most likely to meet "the one" or someone close to that. We're all human everyone has their imperfections. What you need to figure out is whether that particular "imperfection" is something you can live with.
2007-01-28 02:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i do beleive we all have that other half that completes us.how do i know?well ive heard of so many older men an ladies in there 70's say when there eyes met,or when the seen each other,they just knew in there hearts they would marry that person,ive interveiwed over 100 people and they all have come back with this same answer ,so there has to be something to it,i only wish that we all could be so lucky to find that one person
2007-01-28 02:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋