My fiancee' and I are compatible in most ways. He is 51, and I am 40. The problem is that he never wants to be sexual. I'm talking like once a month....
I realize that there could be physical or emotional issues....and he has a doctors appt. very soon.
What worries me is.....what if there isn't a problem? What if that is just his way? Do you break it off with someone you love, because of the lack of sex?
2007-01-27 18:23:01 · 6 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex is not only life there are other lovely things in life which will make both of you love more and finally sex will happen automatically try it out you will win
2007-01-27 18:30:07 · answer #1 · answered by jaikumaar6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really your call. Only you know how you feel for him and if this will become a huge issue in the future. In this case, I think you should wait until after his doctor's appointment and see what you're working with. Is it possible that this is a symptom of something deeper? You might want to look at that. Either way, if you think it's something that's going to bother you in the future, I don't think you should stay with him. If you're with him and unhappy, you're not being fair to him or yourself. Sex is a big part of a relationship. If you're not satifised in that department, other avenues of the relationship will suffer. Good luck!
2007-01-28 02:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be difficult but you may want to consider what you can compromise for. Is this something you think you can deal with in the future. Maybe he can think of alternate ways to pleasure you and still satisfy you without intercourse. Purchase a sex book or go to a xxx store and get some toys!
2007-01-28 02:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by lyricsseven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. if sex is important to you in a relationship, and it isn't for him... perhaps the relationship is not a right match for you guys.. Every couple have their own 'needs' in relationships, and if these 'needs' are not met, then they may need to look for these 'needs' elsewhere..
Discuss it openly with your partner before it is too late in the relationship. You will find your answer... It will do you both a favor.
2007-01-28 02:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all a fiancee at 51? and second of all hes 51 ,old, and that age they dont like to have sex
2007-01-28 02:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you aren't completely happy then you should break it off.
2007-01-28 02:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Waythere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋