I have been friends with this girl for over a year now.. over the time we have become really close. But..ever since she moved out of her parents house she has been a complete *****. We went from seeing eachother every day to hardly ever talking to eachother because she wouldnt return my calls and would never answer her phone. I had brought it up a few times, and she always felt bad and everything was fine....this time we got into it bad I called her the other night because I hadnt talked to her in a like two weeks. She was with some other friends when I called her, and asked her basically what the hell?? All of a sudden she freaked out on me! She started saying things like " its not my fault I have a life..and Im sorry that I cant find time for you" We started going at it..and. She then again called me a dumb ***** and then laughed about it with her friends. She told me I would get over it and forgive her in a few days. So do I forgive her and prove her right or do i forget about her
2007-01-27 17:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by maximraxma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some friends makes mistakes, and yeah she do deserves to be dumped by you...but sometimes the biggest test for friendship is the ability to forgive your best friend...
I say talk to her, tell her she's hurt you bad, and if she's stilll want to be friended with you she better stop doing things that hurting you cause friendship is not supposed to be hurtful...but if in someways she still act like that then leave her...it's her loss anyway..
2007-01-27 18:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Luna-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her she's a loser and if she called you a dumb ***** she's not your friend. You might have been her good girl friend but she's definitely trying to impress a different crowd now. Find yourself a new crowd of friends, and for Petes sake don't call her. When she calls you tell her you were so busy with your new friends you hardly thought about her. Things finally become clear when she's the one looking for an old connection.
2007-01-27 18:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation with one of my best friends (mary) right now. i've known her for 6 years and we've been good friends for the past 4. last year she started dating this guy (john) and they've been together for almost 2 years, but they fight alot. these last few months, i've noticed she's been really distant with me and most of her other good friends. one of her other friends wrote her a really nasty note basically satying that she'd been being a b**** lately and that she didnt think she wanted to be friends with her anymore... i dont really think thats the best way to deal with this situation, but sometimes its the only way to get peoples attention. I called my friend and i said "look, i know you and john have been having some issues lately (as usual), but thats no reason to treat your friends like sh*t. you've been a really lousy friend to me and apparently you other friends too over th last few months, and i'm not asking you to dump john or anything or to call and talk to me everyday. all i'm asking is that you make a little time for your best friend once in a while... like when u say u'll call me back... call me back."
so basically, i think you need to call and tell her whats buggin u, and if she still continues to treat u this way, move on and make new friends.
2007-01-27 18:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by RainDateChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes ppl grow apart shes in a different place than before now enjoying newfound freedom, friends whatever. shes on a different pace than u b/c u dont talk so often. friendships grow apart all the time. this maybe one time. just let it go. theres no right for her to curse at u in the presence of the other ppl and laugh about it, thats for a show she basically ridiculed u publicly. its uncalled for. just let it go u will drift apart and let that be it. no need to curse her out too just forget about it and u guys go seperate ways
2007-01-27 18:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by charli_red1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
faux like u dont endure in innovations a single subject. ur buddy will ultimately come to u and ask for forgiveness you. if she does not you may faux like it did no longer ensue in any respect and circulate consult along with her many times! i guess she feels sorry and is itching to make up with you. via fact dont hassle acquaintances combat great. the closer the bigger for the reason which you adult adult males care approximately one yet another too lots. anticipate greater fights sooner or later too.
2016-09-28 02:19:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you 4give her you have became really close 2 her.plus hey yall are best friends yes you may have ups and downs but thats no reason to end yall friendship!yes i think you should call her and explain to her how you feel about the stuation! but if she disagree with her part about the name calling and not seeing eachother more then i think she's not a treal friend!
2007-01-27 18:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by aaliyah b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The girl has dumped you and now you are a target for fun with her new friends. Stay away from her and find new friends.
2007-01-27 18:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forget about her move on she is not worth the time you have already invested let alone more. to have friends you must be a friend and she doesnt appear to be friend material
2007-01-27 18:04:53 · answer #8 · answered by Special Edition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should forget her really ... She shows u NO RESPECT by talking to you like that. I guess you r insecure , Guess so.. sorry about that... really I am....Its not about proving anything its about treating you like a man should be treated.
2007-01-27 18:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget about her.She seems like she's a a** .So she say's she has a life,will move on with yours and show her you have one too.
2007-01-27 18:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋