I like to be dominated during sex; bondage, name-calling, and just being thrown around. I was just wondering if anyone knows why people like to be sexually dominated?
2007-01-27 17:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by cmpinggrl 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
F Replied:
Submissive like that COULD be related to Dependent Personality Disorder (look it up in the DSM in the reference section of the library, or online). Are you very acquiescent to men in your life in general?
This has been a great help...I looked up Dependant Personality Disorder and minus 1 or 2 things it was exact. I am pretty acquiescent toward men, really toward anyone. It's just weird. I'm not really into the heave BDSM...some of that stuff looks like it really hurts! But I like to be tied up and held down...DURING SEX! If it is at any other time...playing or wrestling around I freak out and start to cry...I feel stuck. Just weird I guess!
2007-01-27 18:52:32 · update #1
Allot of reasons for this one. I have found most "Bottoms" have control issues either they are always having to control themselves and sex is the only place they can lose control or they have the opposite condition and need a "Top" to control all aspects of their life.
I have fond that all of the things we do in life have a psychological reason. You should look up BDSM on the web and see where you fit.
2007-01-27 17:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Submissive like that COULD be related to Dependent Personality Disorder (look it up in the DSM in the reference section of the library, or online). Are you very acquiescent to men in your life in general?
2007-01-28 01:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by F 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason but it depends on the person, a psychologist would have to look at the persons background their personality evaluate them and come to the conclusion, it's really not something anyone can just say as there could be a million reasons.
2007-01-28 01:40:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well i really don't know if i can answer this, cause i would not like to be called names, or abused, and it sounds like you really get off of that. I do think there is a pyschological name for what you have asked here, but as long as it is not dangerous, or life threating, well i would say that that is your choose. If you really want to know you could make an appointment with a therapist and ask them about it, and they could answer your question.
2007-01-28 01:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe because u have to control everything in your life and sex is the only place u can leave urself in to others hands and relax because ur not the one who's taking the decisions no more. sex is for you like a refugee
2007-01-28 03:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by santex 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are missing out on some great times , letting the other do their thing and easy soft tender love . You are missing out beleave me .
2007-01-28 01:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by janice a 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that sounds totally normal. its the hot rough sex kindof thing. it appeals to some people & like the scratching & biting probably comes with that. kinky ppl like that lol but if you mean name-calling like ****** & mean stuff then thats kindof sad. naughty words are nice haha
2007-01-28 01:44:27 · answer #7 · answered by es muy awesome 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋