I need your opinion
We have been in for 2 years we both from deferent nationality but we live in same country we start thinking about the future he told me his father need him to marry from his nationality us he told me he refused to do that and he want to be with me I told him to ask his father again and again he promise to do that but my friends I am not sure is he a hones man with me I know we in love each other but he told for my friend if he ask his father he will have same mind so I feel may be he don’t want to lose his father so what I have to do may be his give me reason I am confused what I have to do in my opinion if he is really in love and if he don’t want to lose me it is easy to face this problem please tell me your opinion what I have to do should I keep distance from him what I have to do I am waiting you answer
2007-01-27 17:21:03 · 5 answers · asked by leen j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this happens a lot actually, more then anyone likes. Sometimes couples just need to give some of that couple time, to family time instead. If your guy, or girl doesn't get along with the family it is going to be hard at family get togethers. So get together every once in awhile and hang out with the fam. Also, tell him/her how you feel. Talk about it. Eventually, it might end up where if you want to get married, do it whether anyone likes it or not, but if you go to this measure make sure you are DEFIANTLY in love. :)
2007-01-27 17:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by aim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is inlove with you, no matter what his father said.
Well some of other country they have a strong bond in the family,but you both lived in the same country right now, and Im guessing that his father lived in their native land..If he really loves you, it wont matter what other people say, and he dont need to say about what his father wants..he need to stand for himself to show how manly he is. If he isnt..well its about time to leave him and find the real person that will love you unconditionally.
2007-02-04 15:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by believeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me and my lover chose his family's wishes...it hurt so bad but you have to respect their beliefs no matter how hard it is...you might try speaking with the father, you never know...I'll say a prayer for you
2007-01-27 17:28:03 · answer #3 · answered by jayneellen57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shuld pleaz his father by doing things dat r almost same as i his nationality
2007-01-27 17:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by Daksh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find someone new
2007-01-27 17:26:55 · answer #5 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋