okay so i just got a boyfriend. I Have never had one before. I feel all weird but i really like the guy i got. I LOVE THE GUY I GOT. But any advice on how to feel normal around him? I just don't know how to act.
2007-01-27 17:19:05 · 9 answers · asked by Darcy'sgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww...that's cute...hehe. how long have u been with him? Remember dont be too attached to the guy. Sometimes guys dont like it when girls are too attached to them and sometimes they need space. All i can say is that you need to have a great deal of trust in him and communication is what makes your relationship healthy. I am glad you really love this guy. In every relationship, the beginning is the best part. You feel butterflies everytime you see them and things between you two are so wonderful. Just enjoy every minute of it because in the long run there will be some arguements. Sometimes fighting is healthy for the relationship. Well, you will still feel weird around him because this is your first relationship and you still need time to be comfortable around him. Sometimes you have to take the risk to make the first move because sometimes maybe he's shy too and dont know what to do. Maybe ask permission like "can i hold your hand?"....
i have been only in two relationships. My first boyfriend treated me bad and our relationship lasted for only two months. I was too in love with him but he didn't feel the same way. He used me for something. He was my first kiss and boyfriend but i never would say he was my first love. After about six months or so I met my boyfriend (whom i am still with). Dating him in the beginning felt like he was my first boyfriend. I went through what you went through. I could not even face him, i didnt know how to act in front of him and all...i reallly liked him too. On our first date, we were both shy but as we went into the theater to watch "New York minutes" (haha i chose the movie) he asked me, "can I hold your hand" and after that my heart melt. That was soooo sweet and cute of him to ask permission. After our first date, i was really comfortable around him. We talked every night on the phone and that's how we got to know more about each other...I told him about my past, family, school, fears, and my deepest secrets. What i love the most about our conversations was our talks about the world and its mysteries. It was great to hear some of his opinions and also his life. Still today I am with him and we've been going out for almost three years now.
all i can say is have self-confidence. bring up conversations that the both of you are interested in. Maybe once a week try to find fun activities the both of you with enjoy doing together: carnival, movies, billards, beach, romantic dinner, paint ball, sports...etc. He loves you and dont be afraid to take risks with him. Just be preapred for any challenges that will come in your rode with him and or any consequences. Just be safe always. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-27 17:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing not that long ago. It took me quite a while to feel normal around him, cuz i needed to get to know him before i really was myself. Just go out with him on a few dates and don't be afraid to talk to him (that's if you are) and (if he makes the move) cuddle with him. If he holds ur hand, then hold his. If he moves closer to you, then give him a hug or something. If you two last, you'll become even more closer and you'll be able to act towards each other, the same way you do around your siblings.
2007-01-27 17:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really normal at first you will get all nerves around him then you'll get over it.
and how to act around him just be your self if he wanted to go out with you is because he thought you were cute and he loved your attitude but just be your self.
that's what its all about
2007-01-27 17:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You'll get comfortable around him eventually.
2007-01-27 17:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by TrayLuvsJay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that guy in school that his farts smell like channel 5. I think I know him!
2007-01-27 17:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Keith B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's normal because it's your first time to have one... know each other more so that youll be comfortable with him... or make your communication stronger so that youll be trained to get normal with him...
2007-01-27 17:24:57 · answer #6 · answered by annika178 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the oldest cliche in the book, but "be yourself" he's dating you because he likes who you are.. don't change anything. be the same girl you have always been and he will like that.. if you change, then he will be confused.
2007-01-27 17:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be urself & dont be nervous & talk to as he is ur best frnd
2007-01-27 17:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take care of him,share everthing wdh him,don't lie 2 him,trust him
2007-01-27 17:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋