I broke up with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago and we just talked on the phone and he understands why I did. My grandparents don't like me being in a relationship so they made me brake up with him even though I really didn't want to. And he says he's angry with himself. I really want to talk again and be friends but how is he feeling? Should I just go up to him and ask him? I still care about him so much. There isn't words to explain the way I feel about him, when I'm around him it seems that life is so perfect and he makes everything better. I would really want to be with him again but he says he could never. I love him.
2007-01-27 16:56:17 · 11 answers · asked by Weirded Out 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will feel very bad and if it is fully over he will suicide he will feel very heartbroken and cant move on
2007-01-27 17:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by bryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your grandparents aren't your parents. Talk to your parents about it.
You must be under 13 or so because that is around the age that parents don't let their daughters have boyfriends.
I never heard of a breakup because a grandparent didn't want you to be in a relationship.
Explain to your parents your feelings and that you have a life too and they can't hold your hand your whole life.
Anyways, he feels like poop because you couldn't stand up to your grandparents or at least explain to them why you want to be with your boyfriend, if you love him that much.
2007-01-28 01:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gee, you let your grandparents too you who to date and who not to? gee, how old r u???
nobody likes being dumped.. it doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl getting dumped. it always hurts..
he may be able to stay friends, but he needs some time and space for the wounds to heal.. give it 4-6 months before you really pressure him for friendship. in fact, i'd stop calling him for now.. otherwise, he'll just act angry and frustrated..
usually, if a friendship is going to work, it has to be the dumpee that asks for it, not the dumper.. the dumper is usally sending a message that they want the person out of their lives by dumping them...
bottom line, if you are young enough to have to listen to grandparents about dating, then you have your entire life ahead of you. i'm sure there will be many boyfriends in your life. and it may take years until you find the one you end up marrying.. anyway, i hope things work out for you in the long run and you can stay friends with him.. but he's gonna have to be the one that wants it.
2007-01-28 01:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know he is probably heart broken because thats the worst thing that could happen....braking up....sometimes you have to do it cuz u have no choice but u end up really hurting the other person my boyfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and im still hurt soo it would take him a long time to get over it but i think you should at least talk to him in person to see how he is cuz it would make him feel better knowing that you still care about him
2007-01-28 01:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by lilbaby3girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend (guy) went through this almost exact same thing with his girls family, (they even moved her down to CAlifornia to get her away from him). They fought it and never gave up for nearly a year. Now they are still happily together. Moral-If you care about this guy as much as you say you do, dont let other people tell you who you can or cant be with. If you love something, never let it go.
2007-01-28 01:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in pain, and so r u. If you think that breaking up with him is the right thing to do, then goodluck. But if your heart is breaking, too and you think that there is nothing wrong with him. Then think about it. Don't talk to him unless he has recovered. He is not ready by this time. Give it some someãtime out.
2007-01-28 01:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Just so honest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels sad and depressed. You should break up with him because you wanted to, not someone else like your grand parents. Your grandparents won't marry him, it's you....
2007-01-28 01:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey u just go n marry him......when u love him sincerely..there s no need to hesitate......when ur love is so strong enough,then ur relations ll automatically get convinced dont worry .......all the best
2007-01-28 01:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by shreya s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats because he dont want to deal with yo parents he dont want to catch a case
2007-01-28 01:06:09 · answer #9 · answered by tecknickololol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy
2007-01-28 01:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋