Theres this guy who i have liked for the past three months. Over time we started to talk more and become pretty close as friends. And just a week or two ago, one of my best friends told me that he liked me. He would text me everyday and flirt in his own sweet and subtle way. We went out to lunch together and had a great time but just recently things have been kind of at a stand still. He doesnt text much anymore, and we still hang out lots but he doesnt seem as interested. My best friend still says he still likes me he just doesnt want a relationship right now. which i totally understand. so yesterday i was at the game with him and a couple other of my friends and this new girl is all over her and he's loving it. I was bummed but shook it off. Today he didnt call or text as usual, but the new girl just called me and told me that he was with Him and was wondering what i was doing. (apparently to make me jealous) If he still likes me,why did he call her? i cant let him go!! help!
2007-01-27 16:40:28 · 4 answers · asked by Meagan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the most important thing in a relationship is not love but communication.....we can be crazy with all the thoughts in a world but if we want to get the best out of life, we have to know what we want....although the truth hurts and we often get what we want...i believe there's a gift behind all GOD plans for us.....i know it cause i went thru this b4.....trust me...
2007-01-27 16:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by lyna o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just not want a committment but remember this new girl must think he likes you or she wouldn't have called to make you jealous. Just continue to be his friend and find some other friends to hang out as well. he may feel that things are moving too fast between the two of you but in time he may want more and you wil be there or you will find somone else who will get you interested in them instead.
2007-01-28 00:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its clear that his crush for you has passed, so the only thing you can do is cherish the friendship you have with him now and move on. you say you cant let him go, but you have to understand that you never really had him.
it'll take time, but understand that its better that way.
plus you probably really started feeling really attracted to him when you found out he liked you...so the emotions isnt really there.
so move on and just leave it as friends
2007-01-28 01:13:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My friend went through this if he wont approach u and is all on this girl its not gonna move anywhere. Appreciate wut u have and if u can try to move to a new step litle by little. Im advicing u and need the same help
2007-01-28 00:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by me myself and i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋