me and my boyfriend are in a bad spot. he loves me and if i didn't verbaly say i am unhappy. he would have no clue. i have almost no fealing left for him. i think some of it is due to our long distance relationship over the phone. and the fact that we don't have alot in commen. well...... he dose not hate anything i love or the other way around. we are interested in the same subjects but not in the same way. ex. i am concerned about my metal band playing shows, he is concerned about mosh pits at metal shows. so it is yes but no. I only see him every cupple months and i have been becomeing less happy every time i see him. not sad. just not happy.i dont hate him, he has never done anything to hurt me. I almost broke up with him tonight. but i can't. it is our 6months tomoreo. ...(cry)
2007-01-27 16:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by Frankly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't avoid ending something just because of time. If you're unhappy now you will continue to be unhappy. If you just don't click, then you aren't meant to be. When you find that someone, you'll know right away.
You have to overcome that fear and let him know you just aren't that happy with the relationship anymore. He'll get over it eventually.
2007-01-27 16:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're this unhappy you need to move on, long distance relationships are tough......
But if you really sincerely love him besides the fact that you seem bored to death of him...just communicate! Either he's going to be wanting to make some changes to fix this, or you both have the right to move on and find someone who makes you happy not miserable
2007-01-27 16:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not married. It's not like there are children involved either, so put him out of his, and your, misery and make a clean break of it. He deserves someone who will love him completely. We all do. You never know, he might be just as relieved and happy that you are the brave one here to do the deed. You can still be friends, can't you? And don't take the Lord's name in vain. That was totally unnecessary.
2007-01-27 16:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by sinned 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how youare feeling. He might be feeling the same way, and if he isnt then you can talk about ways to make things better. If you continue to hold onto him the way thing are going you will start to resent him. Your in a relationship communicate.
2007-01-27 16:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it is time to move on. You are not doing him or yourself any favors continuing a relationship with him if you feel nothing. Don't feel bad about it. Sometimes things just don't work out.
2007-01-27 16:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by magicmunchkins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not a relationship!
You knew in your heart the right thing to do.
A real relationship is caring,sharing,loving,
I didn't read that in your question.
Look,life is about pleasure AND pain,thats how we learn and grow.
You are wasting time in a dead end relationship.
Life is short.
Tell him you just want to be friends.
2007-01-27 16:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consider seeing other people. There is to be little future for you.
Find someone who can stimulate you.
2007-01-27 16:37:17 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree talk it out and lighten your burden. It doesn't mean you cannot still ocasionally go out.
2007-01-27 16:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk it out with him. tell him your concerns. if it doesn't work, it doesn't work.
2007-01-27 16:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
than just brake up with him then!!!
2007-01-27 16:30:06 · answer #10 · answered by cmking11 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋