Have you ever been in a situation where the guy your dating asks (Regarding marriage or relationship) "So tell me what do you have to offer". I completely froze when I was asked this question and for some reason I couldn't come up with an answer. Have you girls ever experienced this....how or what was your reply?
2007-01-27 16:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by Yvette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a flight to the moon!..~~~......It basically is a buisness proposal w/ a contract w/ God. Neverending LOVE, honor, respect, compassion.support, life long commitment, trust, in each other & what u stand for.You build a tower u climb together built with laughter & tears , Brick by brick, you build your lives w/joy & honesty where you r one. If you can't do that why be married?
2007-01-27 16:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've never been asked this point blank, but a good answer (if it's true of course) would be:
WHEN I meet the guy who's going to offer to me all that I want and deserve in a partner, I will offer him a loving, smart and fun partner who will provide laughter, fedility, enjoyable companionship, children and a pass out of loneliness.
I think your lack of reply is pretty understandable, that kind of thing kind of lands on your lap and it can shock you! lol ;o)
*********** UPDATE!!
Since he sounds like he's "interviewing" for a wife, wouldn't it be a hoot to tell him that you're looking at another guys' resume and his "offer" sounds pretty good and it's this:
I'm the guy who will text you every single morning and tell you good morning and every single night to tell you sweet dreams.
I'm the guy who will text you and tell you "i miss you and wish you were here" just because.
I'm the guy who will blindfold you, take you to the beach and let you run your toes through the sand then make you guess where we are.
I'm the guy who will show up at your games (or competitions or meets) without you knowing just to surprise you.
I'm the guy who will hold you when you're crying and wipe away your tears.
I'm the guy who still thinks you're beautiful with no makeup on, wearing sweats and a big t-shirt.
I'm the guy who won't pressure you to do things you dont want to.
I'm the guy who will show up at your house with soup and a movie when you aren't feeling well.
I'm the guy who kisses you on the forehead.
I'm the guy who actually listens to you when you talk.
I'm the guy who's excited all day because im looking forward to our date that night.
I'm the guy who is content to just be able to hold you and wants nothing more.
I'm the guy who can't help but smile when you walk into the room.
I'm the guy who's perfectly content with staying in and watching movies and cuddling.
I'm the guy who won't lie to you about where he's going or where he's been or who he's been with.
I'm the guy who's not afraid to tell his friends how much he likes you.
I'm the guy who isn't always trying to act like a hard *** around you.
I'm the guy who doesn't care about your imperfections and loves you more for them.
I'm the guy who will hold you while we watch the sunset.
I'M THE GUY WHO REALLY WANTS TO MAKE YOU THE HAPPIEST GIRL IN THE WORLD
2007-01-28 00:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by TJTB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he think he's superior to you in some way ? how can he ask you that? good you did not answer him.i mean are you actually suppose to start faffing about 'what you have to offer'. if he got more intimidating- you should have thrown a glass of water on his head and said here you go- ''this'' !
btw - i wouldn't meet that guy again. act pricey and check out how much he really wants to be with you and only if he was persistent would i give him a chance or then just let him go for good.
2007-01-28 00:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a business proposal! I haven't experienced that, but I would say that I can only offer myself. And if that isn't enough for him then he will have to deal with it.
2007-01-28 00:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by viscomunderground 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a job interview, not a date.
He would have better asked about your interests and things you have done, and it's up to him to figure out what you "have to offer."
I think I would say in response to that question:
"I am simply amazing, that's what I have to offer. What about you?"
nah, that sounds lame too.
how about what you have to offer is some time to get to know him better, and what he has to offer you.
2007-01-28 00:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet n Sour 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is asking you with the intention of marriage... then he should already know what you have to offer!
2007-01-28 00:33:10 · answer #6 · answered by snaggleme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you have to offer? wow. its a ridiculous quesion. but the answer is simple. your love. your heart. your soul. you. all one can offer another person, they love. is their self. love is accepting someone, for who they are. perfections, and faults. and seeing their imperfections as their perfections. trusting them with all your heart. and being able to know they will always be there. THAT is what you have to offer.
2007-01-28 00:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by tiffanylovestodance 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What kind of guy asks that? Did he think he was giving you a job interview or something?
2007-01-28 00:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes and my answer is always the same, the only thing i have to offer is myself no more and no less all i have is me.
2007-01-28 00:36:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's only asking, "What are you bringing to this relationship." That isn't hard to answer unless you are a user.
2007-01-28 00:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋