Cheating friend's bf?

Question

My friend is in Germany on an exchange and the other day when I was in town I caught her boyfriend (of apprx 3months) cheating on her (he had a girl sitting on him and they were kissing.)

Should I tell her while she is on her exchange? Tell her when she gets home? Or not tell her at all?

If I tell her I run the risk of him denying it all and my friends will get angry with me and i'll probably lose them.

Answer 1

well if you are a true friend i would com front the bf and tell him if you don't tell her i will.then he would probably say its none of your business but then u can tell him she was your friend before she met you and your friendship obviously means alot to u .then if he doesn't then tell her so she can meet some hotties over there and not feel bad.

Answer 2

A good friend would tell her friend. But would wait until the friend got back from her exchange program in Germany - because hearing this long distance would only be upsetting. So, wait, but tell.

Answer 3

It would be super cruel to tell her when she can't do anything about it. Instead, I would tell her supposed boyfriend he's a lying bastard (preferably do this in front of his new girl) and that you think it's only fair that HE tell your friend that it's over. Tell the new girl that he most likely will cheat on her too - then just walk away and forget about it.

Answer 4

Listen to your heart. What does your gut tell you to do? The right thing is to tell her the truth if she is your friend and all.

Answer 5

you should try to let her find out on her own when she gets back and if she does not find out and they are still together then spill the pot of beans because your freind does not deserve that from her "boyfreind" (boyfreind my As S!!!!!)

Answer 6

I would tell, Ho's before Bro's