i am afraid that she might find another man during her stay abroad for work. we have a baby and we're living together for 2 years now. she always assures me that she will not look for another guy even when there are guys who would approach her for a date. should i hold on to that?
2007-01-27 15:58:10 · 13 answers · asked by jeth1900 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmmm... it seems as though you two are pretty serious with each other. If she says that she won't find someone, you should trust that. Let her know you love her and that is the only reason you worry. I'm going abroad and my boyfriend is a bit freaked too. But I assured him. I'll also be emailing him and calling him too, so perhaps you can make it a habit to give her a ring, even if just to say "Hi, and I miss you."
2007-01-27 16:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lyssepoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should get some professional counselling to explore why you are paranoid for no reason. The fact that you say she "always assures you" tells me that you probably always give her the third degree. Suspecting her without reason will drive her away in the end. So seek help to fix whatever is wrong with you now, before it's too late.
2007-01-27 16:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the most important thing that holds a relationship together. Jealously is the quickest thing that can take trust away. Hold on to it.
2007-01-27 16:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life changes for different reasons and at the end of the day, if it happens, it happens for a reason.
Sure travelling will lead to temptation but if she really feels for you, then it may work but if you don't know then asking won't help.
2007-01-27 16:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like you have any reason not to trust her, so I would say yes, hold on to that. Long distance relationships can work. Good luck.
2007-01-27 16:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she loves you, and u have a baby together, then u have nothing to worry about. especially if the baby is going with her. now a days not many guys want to get involved with girls who have babies, in my experience anyways.
2007-01-27 16:04:14 · answer #6 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it about trust, you have it or you dont,, she and you have a child
together so you have a bond together so that going to keep
you and her tied if nothing else but your child, you just need
to let her know how you feel and then let her do what she need
to do.
2007-01-27 16:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have married her when you got her pregnant. She's free to do whatever she wants- you're not her husband. You have no claim on her.
2007-01-27 16:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't trust her end this now...If she told you she wouldn't do anything, you need to believe her...Or move on...
2007-01-27 16:03:57 · answer #9 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure..... don't you trust her? If she says she's with you then she'll most likely keep her promise.
2007-01-27 16:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋