i need help, im at my cousins house for the last few days, and someone that i really care about is here, shes been actin like she cares about me too, but when my cuzin told her how i felt, she said duhh, its obvious, IM SOO CONFUSED
2007-01-27 15:53:12 · 9 answers · asked by N0LaNbPiMpIn985 F.O.B. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are confused...She knows you like her, now you need to make a move...
2007-01-27 16:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk open and honestly with someone then how could you possibly think you could get into a relationship?
Mature relationships require honest open communication,not riddles or word play that leaves you guessing.
Don't ask US,ask HER what she means and stop using your cousin as an interpreter.
2007-01-27 16:00:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a litte confused too.. is she saying "duh, it's obvious" meaning "it's obvious to me how he feels about me. I already knew that" and then didn't expand on that or did she say "duh it's obvious" like "duh it's obvious how I feel about him too"??? Well I don't know how old you are or how old she is but my bet is probably you are young, in your teens or very early 20's.. and if that is the case, well.. girls have learned they can manipulate guys with her attractiveness and she has probably realized she gets a sense of power with playing with guys and their attention and it feeds her ego. Not all girls are like that, but from what little info you gave, that sort of sounds like that might be the case. I don't think she truly realizes how much she can hurt a guy, she's just having fun with the attention.
2007-01-27 16:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by tinagoomba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask her if she feels the same way about you? the worst thing that will happen is she will say that she doesnt feel that way about you and then you jus need to move on. there is more girls out there that will like you back! everything will work out the way it should even if it isnt the way you want it to! GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-01-27 16:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by [[baby girl]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is your cousin confused? Are you two making a cousin sandwich?
2007-01-27 15:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to get go out and look for someone who will apreciate you .
2007-01-27 16:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...work up the courage to tell her you like her yourself and you want to get to know her more...and see how she responses.
Good luck!
2007-01-27 15:59:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she said, "Duh, it's obvious." she probably meant that it is obvious to her that you like her. (She knows that you like her.) You can either talk to her, or watch her walk away and lose whatever change you ever had. It's your choice.
2007-01-27 16:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can young flirty girls be so cruel? Ignore her, she isn't worth your time...okay?
2007-01-27 15:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋