My boyfriend of 2 years moved out to help take care of his brother (who he has never really gotten along with except the last 6 months). Do you think he truly loves me if he left me home alone indefinitely? Do you think he will come again when his brother is better?
2007-01-27 15:45:56 · 14 answers · asked by citygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably moved on so cherish the memories and experience and move on knowing that you deserve someone much better who will cherish you for who you are.
2007-01-27 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound good. I hate to say that, but something is just off. There a lot of other ways that he could've helped his brother besides leaving the home you and him have shared. Sounds like maybe his brother just offered him an out. I know that's not what you want to hear...I hope your situation gets better, hang in there!
2007-01-27 15:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you being supportive of your boyfriend? How serious is the condition of his brother that your bf needs to take care of him? Do you have a life of your own? If you did, you wouldn't be using phrases like " he left me home alone". Take this time to evaluate yourself and your relationship. Is it true love on your part if you feel abandoned when he is taking care of a member of his family, to whom he is related, unlike living with someone to whom he isn't even married?
2007-01-27 15:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by jiminycricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he call you? Family comes first even when you havent been in touch. If they need you then you go. Talk to him and let him know how you feel and that you just need to hear from him every once in a while. That way you dont seem uncaring about his situation. You dont want to come across as selfish. No man wants to marry a woman who fusses about him helping his family. If you want to know what a man is like, see how he treats his mother and family.
2007-01-27 15:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he care about you? Love you? Spend time with you? adores you? He must have love for his family. Doesn't mean he doesn't have love for you. How serious is his brothers condition? Just give him some time? Or maybe you should go with him to his brothers.
2007-01-27 15:51:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family comes first regardless. You're not man & wife yet. Consider helping him with his brother if you're feeling abandoned if anything he will feel supported with his decision and also feel more connected to you for being so understanding.
2007-01-27 15:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been with him for 2 years and he moved out to care
for his brother that good, but you dont leave a relationship, there
something more going on. and you need to find out what the
real deal is. something fishy to say the least.
2007-01-27 15:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his brother is really sick then he is going to be there for even if they never really got along because that is what family's do for each other if he really loves you like he says he does then you have nothing to worry about
2007-01-27 15:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say. Has he kept in touch over the last six months? If he hasn't - then it is time for you to move on........
2007-01-27 15:48:51 · answer #9 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well he has to love u i mean you are his.
girlfriend and dont get jealous because thats his brother so he will come back youl never no it
godd*luck
2007-01-27 15:50:28 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ccc Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋