hi! I need advice on my boyfriend! When I try to hang out with him he tries to find ways to cancel them :( and I'm his ever first girlfriend this year and he rarely calls me even asks me if im okay! I feel unloved by him and i want to know wats wrong, he's timid and shy but very sweet inside :)
2007-01-27 15:42:01 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There might be a few explanations on what's going on. The simple answer would probably be that he's not that interested. Maybe he liked you at first when he first asked you out, but the fired burned out after some time. There's nothing wrong with that. That happens all the time. Trust me, I know. In this case, you should talk to him and find out how he feels. Just straight out ask him. If it really does seem like there's nothing you can do to save the relationship, then it's better to just go your separate ways. Find someone who treats you better and makes you feel more loved.
Another problem may be that he's insecure. Maybe he likes you but is too afraid to get closer. Trust me, guys may act all macho like they know their way around the ladies, but inside a large number of them is shy and scared. Whether it's the fear of intimacy or rejection, it might interfere with your relationship. The best thing you can do is talk with your boyfriend and try to find out how he feels. Sometimes, that's all you can do.
Hope this helps! And if you guys are meant to be, it'll work out. And if not, you'll find someone better.
2007-01-27 16:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by amcstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell hI'm how you fell and if nothing changes im sorry but you should dump him. i no your his first girl friend but he shouldn't cancel plains all the time and should call you at lest 3 or 4 times a week not a month he isn't into you if he can't lift the phone and call for at lest 5 minutes
2007-01-28 22:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by lady22694 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only one thing you can do. sit him down and talk to him to try to find out whats wrong. if he says nothings wrong then tell him how your feeling and let him know if he doesnt start treating you right then you will leave him. your a beautiful person and you dont need to be treated like that.
2007-01-27 23:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry but i dont think hes very into you even if hes shy.
because if he is shy and hes into you, he would hangout with you when YOU ask him out but maybe HE wont ask you because hes too shy and waits for you to ask him to go out
since he cancels even if YOU do the asking then hes just not into you, not because hes shy
2007-01-27 23:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him next next sit him down and just tell him how you feel about this. If your his first girlfriend he is probably very inexperienced so youll have to be very forward with him
2007-01-27 23:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by charleecuteface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes shy i know that feeling, he likes you but since you're his 1st gf he doesn't know what to do, he doesn't know what exactly to say and doesn't want to put himself in an awkward position. try calling him and show him that he doesn't need to be shy.
2007-01-27 23:51:52 · answer #6 · answered by DiMooch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say that it sounds like he's not interested in you..............
but he's probably interested with someone else??????????????If and when the next time you talk to him. I would simply ask him what's going on with him or don't bother with him anymore.
Hope this helps.
2007-01-27 23:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him... you need someone who spends quality time with you and really wants to.... not just because they think they have to.
2007-01-27 23:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by Neve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure that he is not using you. Don't let a man do that to you...you can find better!
2007-01-27 23:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange , depends how old you guys are? if you guys are boyfriend/girlfriend you should spend time together.
2007-01-27 23:48:25 · answer #10 · answered by CATWOMAN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋