Little did he know I am a stripper! He called MY place and asked for 4 strippers! I didnt know it was him and he was at his beach house! When we got there... what had happened before is I had to go to work(strip) and he was gonna have a "guys only" party. I told him no strippers hookers etc. AND HE SWORE TO GOD that he wouldnt!!! What should I do???
2007-01-27 15:41:53 · 21 answers · asked by sophiasweetiebandy178 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. WE ARE MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-31 12:21:20 · update #1
When you get on the Jerry Springer Show, tell Steve I said "Hi."
2007-01-28 21:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Bad Day 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I bet that was really weird for the both of you.
Even though I kind of think you're being a hipocrit since you're a stripper. He should have respected your wishes and kept his promise.
I bet he probably wouldnt like the idea of you going out and stripping for other men now that he knows.
Neither of you were honest with each other. You didn't tell him what you do for a living and he lied. I say leave him...It's best for you both
2007-01-27 23:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lied to him so you have no right to get angry. If you're lucky after you apoligize he may take you back. But if his friends ordered strippers and he was hanging out then you can't blame him. You should quit your job and act like you don't know and don't say anything and spare him the heartache of you being a liar and untrustworthy OR you could come clean, break his heart just so you can ball him out for having strippers with him and his friends. You are going to be the one in the doghouse if you rat yourself out.
2007-02-04 18:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by goturanswer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you can do unless you also admit to him you're a stripper. I think it's best you both come clean it's the best way to start a lasting relationship. He swore to GOD and you told him otherwise what you do for a living, you're both wrong but there should be no blame. Be honest and move forward.
2007-01-27 23:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he lied to you, but you lied to him too, if you're a stripper. You'll have to clear the air if you want this to last. I suggest going to work and giving him one heck of a show. Might be the last, so make it good. Or just don't go to work and pretend you don't know anything. That won't help the relationship though.
2007-02-04 22:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by kadiewho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You say he's your boyfriend, now he's your husband? And he doesn't know you are a stripper? Sweetie you have a whole host of problems here!! I would sit down and spill everything and have him do the same, or just go and start over, he sounds like a jerk.
2007-02-04 22:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it. I'm sure he has a good reason why he asked for four strippers.
I wonder if HE feels betrayed because his girlfriend is a stripper?
2007-01-27 23:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ju-Ju 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lied to him! Also your question is a lie. You said that "You Boyfriend" then you said u were married. Make up your mind! Your dishonest with him, so why are you so cut when hes not honest with you. You cant expect what you dont give!
2007-02-04 22:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to say anything because you are a stripper so whats good for the goose ... get it .....
2007-01-27 23:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you to tell him "no stripper" when you're among them? Did he know that it's you occupation?
2007-02-04 22:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋