I have been going out with this boy for two weeks now and we really like each other we talk everyday and it's just going great! But my friend is pushing us to hold hands and all that stuff but we are both kind of nervous to do that... is this bad???? Plz I need help!
2007-01-27 15:32:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not a girl i know but dont worry about what they are telling you, its not bad it just means you are a little shy and that you like him. whenever you do hold his hand make sure its on your own time and his. trust me if you start to think about this stuff too much you will go crazy plus you will be wanting to be taking things faster. the older you get these kinda things will change and get more confusing but dont worry just go with what you feel and what your heart is telling you.
2007-01-27 15:39:56 · answer #1 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad at all. I understand how you feel, it happened to me once. Just as long as both you and your boy are comfortable with each other that's all that matters. It's only been two weeks, if after 2 years you guys still don't hold hands then I guess it would be weird.
You are in the relationship, not your friend! Perhaps your friend is trying to be helpful and all but her word is not the be all and end all.
2007-01-27 15:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. When I went out with people a couple of years ago when our friends always pushed us into putting his arm around me and holding hands. Wait for the right moment.... it'll be ok. It is totally normal definitly not bad. Tell your friend to stop pushing u if ur not ready.After you 2 do hold hands you'll realize why you worried about it the whole time! If you need anymore help or anything e-mail me, i know what its like going through akward stages in relationships!!
Good Luck! :)
2007-01-27 15:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by eMa_RoSe- cHeErLeAdEr cUTiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, its not bad that your nervous, whn the time is right you will both know it. Your friend should stop pressuring you into things. Maybe you should let her know that you two will hold hands, kiss and all that when the time is right. Love isnt holding hands anyways, its more about the talking and caring about eachother. If you dont think that is right, maybe you should talk to your boyfriend and see what he thinks about holding hands...that is if your ready to.
2007-01-27 15:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young it is just a faze that you are going through. You will meet a lot of people in your lifetime. That is why it is very important to take you time and make a mature decision about things you think you should be doing but know that you should not do. Everyone that comes in your life either you should learn something from them or the opposite. Remember take you time and that will explain it all. If you feel pressured or rushed it is not in your best entrance. Things that are here today want always be tomorrow.
2007-01-27 15:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Donna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is in the same situation... one of our other friends is always like hold hands you two... or they would be hugging and she'll go your hands are to low. But she is just trying to be a good friend(But it work, better in our case). Just tell her that she is pushing you guys to much, and that you guys need to take your own time... it will work :)
2007-01-27 15:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER EVER EVER Let anyone "push" you into something you're not comfortable with * That's where alot of teens/kids go wrong. They allow the "peer" pressure get to them, and try do do things they really don't want to , just to 'fit in'...
If you Know it's "wrong" DonT Do It*.....if you're not comfortable......go with your gut feeling and don't do it*~
WHen you're ready to "hold hands" and all that "stuff"........you will know it* but for now..........Do what your heart tells you is right*(not what your so called friends tell you to do) GoodLucK*
2007-01-27 15:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO ITS NOT BAD. Take your relationship slow you guys obviously arent trying to rush anything so tell your friend that you and your bf are taking it slow. GEEZ....you two have only been dating for 2 weeks tell your friend to give you a break. You and your bf are doing fine just enjoy each others company.
2007-01-27 15:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to your friend. Its your relationship. If you what to hold hands, then go ahead. But if you arent comfortable with that yet, then just take things slower. Everyone is different.
2007-01-27 15:41:30 · answer #9 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and this guy need to go at your own pace. Do not let ANYBODY push you to do anything that you BOTH are not ready for. Just tell your friend, "get off me. Lol"
2007-01-27 15:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by MoMoney23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋