Its time i finally admit it. i'm falling for my best friend. I've been his buddy his shrink and confidant and i think I'm crushing quickly. Thing is my first reaction is to avoid him for a bit and just let myself get back to normal... but suddenly he's acting confusingly... Avoiding me, talking to other girls when he hasn't said a word to me all day, walking by me and wacking me in the arm, i find him standing next to me just silently... And i know that now I'm not being exactly myself either. But i don't think he likes me becuase he isn't doing any other the staring, etc. That comes with it. Oh! I'm so confused. What do i do to: a) get over it
Or b) figure out what the heck he's doing. Please help! Thanks
2007-01-27 15:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by sudoku_crazed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him about it.
The best relationships start as just friends.
Good Luck
2007-01-27 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you both have a thing for each other but neither of you knows how to react to your own feelings. If you think that you are ready to be involved with him, step up to the plate. There is nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. Make the time to tell him what's up, the worst he could do is tell you not interested. Then your left with getting over it!
2007-01-27 15:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by lucky 13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and talk to him. Maybe he is falling for you too and is having the same akward feelings as you are. Avoiding him isnt the answer. I remember when I started falling for one of my best friends. It was kinda strange at first, but then, after I talked to her and told her how i felt, things were alot better. And it turned out she liked me too. So good luck and hopefully things will work out for the best.
2007-01-27 15:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always said that Honesty is the best policy. I think he likes you too and is just as afraid as you are. One of you will need to break the ice, try it, you are a woman, let yourself roar.
2007-01-27 15:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he is playing games and needs to get real or take a hike.
2007-01-27 15:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask him why hes acting weird and then maybe you should confess cause you never know he could feel the same way about you too
2007-01-27 15:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B) Act with intelligence, not stupidity, as you could royally screw up!
2007-01-27 15:30:56 · answer #7 · answered by segenovmoltock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b
when i heard the begining of your story i thought the same that he might like u
2007-01-27 15:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deffinatly figure out whats going on in his head maybe he likes you to
2007-01-27 15:30:24 · answer #9 · answered by chauntel c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋