i broke up with her and i was really depressed but i want to know if i just like her because she will make out with me or i really like her.
2007-01-27 15:20:37 · 17 answers · asked by guytano11 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just like her because she will make out.
2007-01-27 15:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Really Nice Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I'm guessing high school, right?
Don't worry about it. So what if she's the only one who is willing to kiss you... so far. You've got YEARS to find another girl.
What follows is the same advice I would give to any young (or even not so young) single person--
1) Personality and attitude can (and often do) make up for a lot that many lack in the appearance department.
2) Get to know (and like) yourself. If you don't like you, nobody else will, either!
3) Remember that members of the opposite sex are first and foremost human beings. They like to be respected, they like to be liked. And they like others to be genuinely interested in them. So it's ok to be "just friends" with people- a) it gives you a chance to practice your social skills, and b) gives everyone an opportunity to decide IF they like someone and WHY....
4) Some things to be wary of-- avoid those who poses these traits and avoid being guilty of them yourself....
Deciet- dishonesty, twisting the truth, etc. I find this trait VERY unattractive in men AND women. I dated a couple guys that were dishonest with me, dumped them as soon as I found out they'd lied to me.
Laziness- not ambitious. I dated a couple guys that didn't really have any plans to do something with their lives. One wouldn't even get out of bed in time for much of anything. He practicallly dumped himself!
Arrogance- pride, egocentric, "I am all that and the bag of chips..." It gets kinda tiresome to hear someone who only talks about themselves! Yep, dated one of these, too... and he lied!
5) I had a mentor tell me once, "Decide the kind of man you want to marry, then become the kind of woman that will attract that kind of man."... So translate that to your situation, and there you have it.
Enjoy being young and free, and best of luck.
2007-01-27 23:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't a really good idea to break up with her just to test your own feelings. That was selfish and unfair. You should talk to her and tell you are sorry and that you were just confused and unsure about your relationship. Tell her you want to be sure that feelings you have are genuine and not just physical, and maybe that you could try again. Usually if a girl hears that you want a genuine loving relationship instead of sex it will make her melt like butter. Thats all most of us women really want. Anyway, its worth a try and she might come around
As for you, take things slow. Don't be in such a hurry to make out. Trust me if you can enjoy being with her without making out you will know your feelings without having to break up with her, or hurt her feelings.
2007-01-27 23:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well When you think about her do you feel happier. If you do and the image of her isn't just you kissing her and you think of her more than three times a day chances are there is more than just liking to lock lips with this girl . If not Hey there are millions of girls that are probably having the same problem that feel like nobody wants to kiss them..Prove them wrong.
2007-01-27 23:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Renwa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there are a lot of people who'll think you're cute. Just look and you'll find a GREAT catch who will really like you. You broke up with her for a reason, so maybe BE friends with her, and sort out your feelings while you're friends until you are sure.
2007-01-27 23:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Catherine H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a good make out session or a physical encounter did you still want to be with her for more then that? Chances are that if you have to ask then you were in it for just the kissing
2007-01-27 23:27:19 · answer #6 · answered by tis I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU broke up with her but YOU"RE the one that's depressed* Hmmmmmmmmmm ,,,,,now you want someone who will "kiss" you but can't find anyone* Doesn't that tell you something*~! What goes around comes all the way back around* it's called Karma*
2007-01-27 23:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like her because you enjoyed making out. Although making out is fun - it doesn't make for a good or long lasting relationship. Give it time, another girl will come along...she isn't the only gal out there that will find you kissable!
2007-01-27 23:24:53 · answer #8 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you break up with her? I'm sure you can find someone to kiss you. I'm sure if you are depressed then you must've liked her.
2007-01-27 23:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by K-E-G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(smile) I remember when this seemed like a problem. You will find plenty of girls who will want to kiss you. Don't worry.
2007-01-27 23:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋