kso,
i have liked this guy for almost the whole school year. granted, i have liked other people. we recently switched classes and i no longer have the class that i had with him. we both have the class just in different periods. my best friend has the class with him and the other day he asked where i was and she told him that i didnt have the same period as them anymore. so he said "darn" but that wasnt the first time he had said something about me. later that day i saw him and his best friend in the hallway at school, i saw them and so did his friend, he kind of nudged my crush and he turned around and they stopped talking until i got to my class. that freaked me out a litle bit. then at an assembly we had [yesterday] anytime me or my best friend looked over, my crush and several of his friends would be looking our way. im not sure if this means that he likes me or not. i dont want to take the chance of telling him and then him not liking me and looking like a complete fool.
HELP ME!
2007-01-27 15:19:35 · 24 answers · asked by *purdy* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont have a boyfriend =[
havent since my last one cheated on me.
and the guy i like is a year older than me. so i dont really know what to do.
2007-01-27 15:26:39 · update #1
with great risk comes great reward go for it i had about the same situation i liked my girlfriend now for like a year and now i found out thats she has liked me for longer and cause she was older both of us were a little timid to make a move because neither of us now that the other liked each other and now i regret waiting so long to tell her i liked her but now i am absolute i love
2007-01-27 15:37:40 · answer #1 · answered by Joel R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kso,
i have liked this guy for almost the whole school year. granted, i have liked other people. we recently switched classes and i no longer have the class that i had with him. we both have the class just in different periods. my best friend has the class with him and the other day he asked where i was and she told him that i didnt have the same period as them anymore. so he said "darn" but that wasnt the first time he had said something about me. later that day i saw him and his best friend in the hallway at school, i saw them and so did his friend, he kind of nudged my crush and he turned around and they stopped talking until i got to my class. that freaked me out a litle bit. then at an assembly we had [yesterday] anytime me or my best friend looked over, my crush and several of his friends would be looking our way. im not sure if this means that he likes me or not. i dont want to take the chance of telling him and then him not liking me and looking like a complete fool.
HELP ME!
2007-01-27 23:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem that he likes you. From what you said i think he feels the same way you do, so you should tell him how you feel. If you watch how he acts around you and how he acts around other girls this will help you determine if he likes you to, but it is worth the risk of possibly looking like a fool to actually tell him and have the possibility to go out with him. I had a crush on my friend for about a year, but I didn’t know if she liked me as more than a friend. So I eventually found the courage to ask her out and she said yes. She later told me that she had a crush oh me, and if i had asked her out earlier she would have also said yes. So just go for it! Good luck
2007-01-27 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by gotansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah Woah Woah. Slow down. So you like this guy right? And you want to know if he likes you back. But you dont want to embarriss yourself by asking him out and him saying no. OK, I think I have the solution. Try being friends with him first. You know, like when you see him, stop and talk for a minute, or even just say "Hi" when you see him in the hall. Then, when you are more comfortable being around him, go ahead and ask him out. Who knows, maybe you'll be lucky and he likes you back.
2007-01-27 23:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what some guys are weird, and are unexplainable.
Let me tell you a little store about what happened to my sister and her crush...
My sister had this crush on this guy for awhile. It all started in grade 10 when she was in drama class with him and I (my sister and I are twins, not identical but fraternal of course because i am a boy and she is a girl). Anyways, she was attracted to him and couldn't stop thinking about him let alone talking about him. She got his email from one of his friends in the summer time of that year, and began talking to him over msn but he never talked much maybe because they weren't really friends. So she would still think about him and talk about him and the following year she would notice him staring at her and walking by her from time to time. So then she thought he liked her so she asked him to semi-formal (school dance) but he rejected her saying he had something else to do that night but the night of the semi-formal he was there and she saw him, but never yelled at him or anything just knew nothing would happen but she still likes him and thinks and talks about him from time to time.
Guys can be confusing, they may doing something but thinking another. Just wait and see what happens, see what he does before doing anything.
2007-01-27 23:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't look the fool - relationships are all about risks. You will take a lot of them in your lifetime. You like the guy? Then go up and talk to him. Ask him out for a coffee or something. Don't let shyness and fear of rejection stop you from going for what you want. If you do, you will miss out on a lot of cool dates!
2007-01-27 23:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, let him know you like him..We girls tend to wait for the guy to make the move, and we often miss out on great friendships/relationships. Here's a thought: Had i not made the first move, my husband and I may not have gotten married...
2007-01-27 23:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could make the first move but you could lose your pride if he's just being flirtatious. Just kept it mildly flirty and let him make the first move. You never want to be too available or they guy has nothing to look forward to. Guys like to feel like they worked hard..keep him guessing.
2007-01-27 23:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should make your move. It's obvious that the guy has a good feeling about you too. so why wait for him to make the move? Does not always have to be the guy who makes the first move. I say go for it!
2007-01-27 23:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by Dr9984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go over to him and say HI,
or something like..
that u havent seen him since ur not in the same classes anymore\wtver..
2007-01-27 23:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by lehcimYbal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋