like 40-50 year olds. is that gross? should i go see a shrink?
2007-01-27 15:15:37 · 22 answers · asked by Elizabeth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no you aren't sick, i am the same way, but not that old.. think about how those guys could be your father!! look to 20-30 year olds.. And for those that said to like people your own age, you try being interested in an immature, horny piece of **** 18 year old.. They suck!! you are perfectly okay sweetie.
2007-01-27 15:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're OK. In twenty years, you'll still probably be attracted to 40-50 yr old men. You don't need a shrink.
2007-01-27 23:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have had a couple of these type of relationships in my family. Here's what I've been writing to a guy who had the same doubt (crush on much younger women):
... When Aristoteles was asked what he thought the perfect age difference between husband and wife is, he said 17 years. When they asked him why 17, he said because that's the difference between his and his wife's age and they were perfectly happy.
There's so much more to this then age...
All it usually means is that you can't let your self go as bad as other men do and you have to be careful not to sound corny when trying to act younger.
And don't bow to her whims or let her run the show. She'll try that but she'll absolutely contempt you, if you do.
But if you don't go with it, you'll always regret it.
So roll up your sleeves and be the best guy you can, one more time...
2007-01-27 23:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant say thats normal but its definately not gross or anything. actually i rather date someone older maybe not 40-50 years older but i still like girls older. all i can say is be careful with dating some 40 year old guy alot of things can happen.
2007-01-27 23:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, Sweety, you don't need to go see a shrink. You're not the only girl to prefer older guys over immature younger guys.
2007-01-27 23:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by cartiphilus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its sick. But then again I'm 21 and I'm also attracted to guys that age and have been for awhile.
People tell me that I must have issues with my father. But I have a close relationship with my dad.
People also mention misplaced affection. You date older men to replace the lack of love between you and your dad. Which I think is bs. I'd never think of doing anything like what I've imagined doing with say..Robert Redford...with my dad.
I think its just a preference. Some people like redheads, some like blondes...some like grey hehe
2007-01-27 23:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your fine. If you went to a shrink they would ask if you felt it was unhealthy? If you think it is wrong then it is. If you don't then it isn't.
Most young ladies date an older man at least once or twice.
At least you aren't attracted to jail bait!
2007-01-27 23:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like mature men theres nothing wrong with that but 40/50 that is gross
2007-01-27 23:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Raven24k 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Can a 35 year old be down? Holla
2007-01-27 23:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by AA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40/50!
omg
see a syciatrist
2007-01-27 23:21:45 · answer #10 · answered by LiTlE mIsSy 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋