well-
i like this guy
hes 2 years older than me
varsity football player
who need i mention
is gorgeous!
I'm a freshman
cheerleader
who is also in band.
Now I'm not ugly
I'm actually think that
I'm quite attractive.
I can talk to
other guys with the
utmost confidence,
but i cant even bring myself to
say hi to this guy and
i dont know why.
This is the first time
EVER in my entire
life where i am
tounge-tied!
I can talk to anybody
but i get flabergasted
when i even look at him.
I know he knows I exist~
I just dont exist enough to him
for him to talk to me.
Why cant i get my confidence
up enough to talk to him???
2007-01-27 15:05:59 · 6 answers · asked by So uhhNoFunnyBusiness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yu sure can...i know the 1st step is the hardest..BUT...once u talk 2 him and let him get 2 know yu as a friend, it WILL SURELY make it easier for yu afterwards
2007-01-27 15:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and try it. But be warned: There will be a ton of other girls to compete with, and it is entirely possible you'll get shot down. That's the downside of most of the girls in a school liking just a few guys.
2007-01-27 23:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Reality 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that feeling before I married my husband and I was interested in him and when ever he came around I got tongue tied when trying to speak to him, or I would say something that didn't make sense all because he was cute. However I noticed with my now husband that when I pretended I was not as interested in him he would try harder to go out of his way to talk with me. And I started talking to him like I would talk to one of my friends and it started to become easier for me to talk to him. But everyone different on how they handle things. Maybe pretend like hes just one of the friends and see how that goes.
2007-01-27 23:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. It might be best not to say much of anything. Just smile at him and when he's around look interested in what he's saying or doing, but if you puah yourself to speak to him and your not ready, you might embarrass yourself by saying something you'll regret.
2007-01-27 23:13:43 · answer #4 · answered by sunflower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same boat.. i get that way around good looking guys haha ,
we need answers
2007-01-27 23:09:31 · answer #5 · answered by MeganElizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem.....and the guy i like dosent want me to be afraid to talk to him.....so go for it
2007-01-27 23:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by wish i could have my navy man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋