This is kind of a long story. I met him 3 years ago & I've been best friends with him ever since then. We went out a few months after we first met. We dated for a few weeks & then he broke up with me. We stopped talked for about a year after that happend. We started talking again & we both said that we still had feelings for each other, he asked me out but I said that I didn't want to start dating again because we haven't seen each other in so long. He was fine with that, but then he brought up the subject again about a month later & I agreed that I would go out with him. We dated for 2 months exact. He broke up with me again... He was a completely different person after that happend. He was just really disrespectful towards me, when I didn't even do anything. After those 2 weeks, he called me one morning, very early... I didnt answer so I called him back when I woke up. He said that he phucked up & that he mad a big mistake & that he missed me and still loved me.
2007-01-27 15:04:45 · 6 answers · asked by lalalauren 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I still had feelings for him too. He asked me back out. So, of course I said yes. So two weeks went by and everything seemed like it was going fine until 2 days ago. He hadn't called me & he didn't pick up when I called him. I talked to him earlier today online and I asked him if he wanted to hang out and he said to me "Let it go, its over this time for real... bye" and then he signed offline. I text him and I asked him why & what I did. He never responded. I was obviously upset, because this is the 3rd time he broke my heart & phucked with my heart. He called me tonight around 6:00. He said that he screwed up again & that he was sorry. He said he was leaving tonight to go to Maryland because he just needs to get away from here for awhile. I asked him how long he was going to be there... He said "I don't know... till I'm 18, 19, 20, 21... I dont know." Then we said goodbye. Then I hung up the phone.
2007-01-27 15:08:27 · update #1
I cried for hours. I didn't get to see him before he left. I just talked to him on the phone for a couple minutes. I really can't handle all of this. He's my best friend. I would do anything to see him. I love him to death. I don't even know if I will ever see him again... or even talk to him. I'm already an emotional, bipolar, depressed girl... and this whole situation just makes everything 10x worse. I don't know how to get over him... What should I do?
2007-01-27 15:09:31 · update #2
You need to remember that you are young and that life goes on.
2007-01-31 07:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is not that easy just to get over someone right now, it is going to take you time, and you may need to get help to work through this, and if you are feeling 10 x worse then you normally do then you just may need to call a er, or your local crisis line, or you doctor, if you can get in touch with him after hours, and talk with him. So i would say, don't worry about if you are going to see him again, cause if it is meant to be you will, right now you need to take care of yourself, and not worry about him, since he seem to just walk out of there, with out telling you why. You really need to think about yourself, right now, and how to keep yourself save, and to work through this, and get over it, if you can. I know it is hard, but right now your well being is the issure, and you need to call someone who can help you get through this, and get that stress level down, cause being 10x worse is not a good thing, and you know that, and you know that you are going to need some real help to get through this, so why not go and talk it out, over and over again if need be, but get this issue taken care of , so you can feel a whole lot better, if you need to call the crisis line as many times as you need to , please stay safe, take care, and god bless.
2007-01-27 15:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look some people no matter how much they care about each other shouldn't be together. It sounds like it'll be best if both of you moved on.
2007-01-27 15:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by retrodragonfly 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww thats saad but really theres nothing to do but try to keep in touch and you should no its over if he has done that much damage to ur heart why do u go back let him goo and let ur slef go
2007-01-27 15:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by cheergal4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a player
2007-01-27 15:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by glamour04111 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget him
2007-01-27 15:08:08 · answer #6 · answered by wondering... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋