OK I'm single and 40 and never married,and no children,at my age I'm not caring to do the hurry up an get

Question

married and have the kids and all,but im not opposed to meeting a wonderful man an he has kids ,now what my q is,what do you think of my looks and who i am?please do not tell me im fat,be real im doing weight watchers for my health and for no one but me,but i just want the peoples opinions from ladys and men tell me what you think of my looks and if would a single man date me? here is my link to my photos http://www.myspace.com/a_rebel_lady

Answer 1

You mean you want to meet a man to have an instant family? Or am I misundrstanding? Pretty eyes. Are you really into all that male stuff? Wow. There is such a thing as too much sharing - at least in the beginning of a relationship - that is, whoever he is probably has male friends for bikes, etc...Need more balance, less "I'm going to be your buddy", I think. I see a lot of WSM ads like that but haven't deciphered what it means. I think it might be code for one night stands - ie male type wham bam thank you mam. Or maybe just lots of drinking...But I'm probably over-reacting. Put down what you've done in the last year or 1.5 yr in terms of the stuff you love. As far as your looks. I think there is a biological component cuz 20 somethings all (99.7%) look cute to me. But IMHO you'll have no trouble attracting men. Have you been dating married men? Its curious that you don't already know that there's a whole lot of single men who'll go out with you. As to their quality, that'll be a grab bag. One of those pay sites (E-harmony?) worked for my 50 yr old sister but you might have to pan a lot of mud before you find the gold nugget. Good luck. As I recollect, all of the women I've dated claimed to be on weight watchers or some such, never amounted to much. Don't wait for your weight to conform to some image of what you think will be marketable. Life's too short. A fair number of guys like heavy(er) women and besides you know how much fat a brain contains? AND that its the most important sex organ, so...

Answer 2

You are very pretty, but you can tell just from your pic (you not looking at the camera) that your self-esteem is low, and you make up for it by being the "rebel-lady." I am not being mean or anything, I am trying to answer your question, you need to be more confident and less "I am a rebel and fine all by myself." There is nothing wrong with wanting to be loved and possibly getting married. You can be happy with yourself and be part of a couple, but your page seems to be fighting against it...it doesn't welcome people, it pushes them out. Soften up your pics and your myspace page (and maybe your attitude - maybe you do want to hurry up and get married...don't fight it!). Just tell yourself, I want this, and it will happen. Your heart is saying one thing, your mind another. Think about what you really want and then let every part of yourself think that way! Good luck!

Answer 3

Some people never gets married and are happy. You are right age to marry. You are a nice looking lady and the right man will come and perhaps have already come and you have rejected him.
Being single someone will always try to marry you and in your heart you will know when you are ready.

Answer 4

You are a cutie. but it is true there is someone out there for everyone no matter age, looks or what have you. You just need to be patient and see who comes along. Enjoy being single a but longer there are loads of married people who wish they were in your position.

Answer 5

well your site is pretty cool, so you must have a fun side....I think there is someone for everyone! They just haven't met that special someone yet.....If your looking, don't, that's when you'll meet someone....But get out and do things....I am assuming you like Biker stuff?....There are plenty of men who don't look like they belong to the Hell's Angel's, get you a motorcycle and learn to ride, then join a riding club....Heck, just get out and do stuff....PS> I think most men like a woman who doesn't look like a pretzel stick! Good Luck to ya'!

Answer 6

for starters, you have a horrible sense of ascetics, it's really hard to view that page with that terrible background, not to insult you or anything.

second, that picture is really bad, over exposed, blurry and not a flattering angle. it doesn't matter how heavy you are because there are plenty who like that type of thing.

your also a bit opinionated and ready to attack your position which can be quarrelsome.

Answer 7

i think you're pretty:) plus, if he only goes after you because of looks, he isn't a real man right? it's all about personality:) don't worry. you'll be great.

Answer 8

Yes there is someone out there for you.
Good Luck